I have been telling u guys about this guy I have met some months back. His sister came over from this other country to participate in a function I have arranged with other young ppl. And also she wanted to meet me.
Now the whole experience meeting her was very weird. Not that I didn’t like her. She seemed like a nice and down to earth person. But what I didn’t understand was that since we hadn’t met before and her brother (THE guy) couldn’t come along with her, there was noone to introduce us to each other.
He had showed me her pictures so I had a slight idea about how she looked like. And last time he came over to visit he took pictures of me with his mobile so I was guessing that he had showed her.
So when I came to the place, the function was being held, I sent her a sms that I am there now. But I didn’t get any reply back. A little while later I spotted her at a tall looking at some books or cds but I didn’t want to run over to her as she was the one from the guy’s side and why should I be so eager!!
So I waited to get a reply on my phone. But didn’t get any. Then she came over and sat at the same row as me. We got eye contact and I could feel that she knew that I was “her” but she just stared. And I didn’t know what to do so I looked away.
I then got reply on my sms that she was sitting there at that row so I smsed back that I was sitting at the other end of the same row but she didn’t look again or gave a smile. In the meanwhile, the function started with Quran recitation and then other stuff came on so everyone was focused on that.
But when it was break time, she still kept sitting there. Didn’t look around to find me and didn’t check her mobile either to see if I had written or not.
So I got offended and went to the cold drinks stall and waited for her to sms and show some eagerness. Afterall she was there to meet her brother’s choice…but no…there was no reaction. Then I called her and told that I was at that stall and she came there. She didn’t refer to our eye contact before and maybe pretended that she hadn’t seen my picture. Or maybe she hadn’t seen it and it was just me……
Anyways, she had some chocolate for me and she started asking me about how many brothers and sisters I have etc. things that she already knew about.
The break was over. We decided to go for dinner before the other part of the function would start later in the evening. The dinner went well. All the girls from the arrangement group were along with us so we didn’t get into any personal talk.
After dinner we went to the other part of the function. Here there was plenty of opportunity to get to know each other while having tea and cakes. But she sat with some auntie and started talking about her kids and started to start with her daughter ( and believe me I was getting both worried and envious as this girl was so much more cute than me etc and their family background etc would be more appealing to someone like her)
So I asked her to join me and other girls as she was there among aunties all alone. She came but didn’t say much here.
Then we drove them to their accommodation and met again the next day. The function lasted 2 days. So I asked her what her plans were for her last day in my town expecting her to suggest that we should hook up. But she goes like”Oh, don’t u worry, we (she and the aunties she came along with) are going to this aunties place (the one she was talking to the night before).
And I was like..hhhhhhhhhhhhhmmmmmmmmmmmmmm…what is going on here???shouldnt she be eager to spend more time with me than rushing into strangers’ home and meet them. The auntie she came with knew this family but still I think it was very very strange that she prioritized to meet them instead of spending some more time with me. She had 6-7 hours till leaving the country and she decided to go to their place instead and tells me not to worry about them getting bored here….
Tell me guys, isn’t it weird or is it just me expecting to be treated like a princess cuz her brother likes me and wants to marry me….hmmmm