Re: His parents say no to our love marrige,what should I do?
about my parents,they wanna me happy,give me the rights to choose who i wanna marry,when i crying infront of my mother,she said yes,what the parents wanna from their kids is just happiness, i don't know why,they are parents,the same,just parents,why there is so much diffrence.
It's a sad situation and you may have been played, maybe he thought he could convince his parents but he cant. Either way if he is not willing to go against his parents wishes then you need to move on. If you have a thing for pakistani guys there are many whose parents would accept you with open arms you need to look for one of those. But you also need to consider your religious beliefs, it's ok for a muslim man to marry a christian or a jew but you are an athiest, that is not allowed.
Be strong and cut off ALL contact with this guy.
Re: His parents say no to our love marrige,what should I do?
It's a sad situation and you may have been played, maybe he thought he could convince his parents but he cant. Either way if he is not willing to go against his parents wishes then you need to move on. If you have a thing for pakistani guys there are many whose parents would accept you with open arms you need to look for one of those. But you also need to consider your religious beliefs, it's ok for a muslim man to marry a christian or a jew but you are an athiest, that is not allowed.
Be strong and cut off ALL contact with this guy.
yes,he thought he could convince his parents,but who knows,his parents are so mean,my country is poor,but i love her,there is no any limits of marriage (except one thing,we can't marry with our cousin)we need open mind.Tolerance, not conservative
Re: His parents say no to our love marrige,what should I do?
yes,he thought he could convince his parents,but who knows,his parents are so mean,my country is poor,but i love her,there is no any limits of marriage (except one thing,we can't marry with our cousin)we need open mind.Tolerance, not conservative
I am guessing you are using some kind of translation tool. This may sound harsh but to muslims our faith is everything, it is more important that anything, he can not marry you unless you are a muslim/christian/jew. I agree his parents are not acting in the true spirit of Islam with regards to his marriage choices, if you were a muslim/christian/jew they would be totally in the wrong preventing you from getting married, but you are not muslim/christian/jew so this marriage can not happen even if his parents agree. You need to understand this, muslims have to put God before anything.
This guy should have never got involved with you, he is in the wrong for allowing your relationship to continue, it's not fair but now you have to pick up the peices and move on with your life.
Re: His parents say no to our love marrige,what should I do?
from july 2010
So 7 months, women I have cheese in my fridge thats older than that. You have to move on, like nomica said pretend he is dead, mourn him and move on. Can you go on a holiday or something, travel the world, go out with friends.
Re: His parents say no to our love marrige,what should I do?
yes,now he is talking with me
Ignore his calls, change your number if you have too, don't let him mess your head up anymore. The only way you are going to heal is with NO CONTACT AT ALL!!!!
Re: His parents say no to our love marrige,what should I do?
So 7 months, women I have cheese in my fridge thats older than that. You have to move on, like nomica said pretend he is dead, mourn him and move on. Can you go on a holiday or something, travel the world, go out with friends.
because of my job,i can't ask for leave,if i wanna go to have a trip,i have to quit my job,now i am getting ready to do this.my country is too large,i don't know where to go.
Re: His parents say no to our love marrige,what should I do?
Ignore his calls, change your number if you have too, don't let him mess your head up anymore. The only way you are going to heal is with NO CONTACT AT ALL!!!!
it's not easy to say goodbye to someone who you loved so much
Re: His parents say no to our love marrige,what should I do?
he didn't tell his parents about my faith,but why they just can't accept me?
Some families will not even accept someone from the same country and only allow cousin marriages. It sounds like he is one of those families, they will never ever accept you. It's not right, its not fair but life is not always fair. Theres nothing wrong with you (apart from your lack of religion), it's not your fault stop beating yourself up and move on!
Everyone knows what there parents are like, believe me he always knew his parents would want him to marry a cousin. I always knew my parents wanted me to have an arranged marriage, so I knew that if I wanted to have a love marriage I may have to lose my family, thank Allah it did not come to that. He is not willing to do what it takes to be with you, so as bad as it sounds, he is just not that in love with you. Thats not your fault, you deserve to have someone that would move mountains to be with you, he is not that guy. You must close this chapter of your life and begin a new one, learn from this and MOVE ON.