Re: His Money / My Money
You can totally help how you feel if you’re a sane human being. The trick is a broader overlook at things from all the possible perspectives and ultimately the realization of how beautiful and important every human relationship is and what’s their value on individual and collective basis.
Try living for others considering them as much important as you think of your own self. Hard to do but the happiness and joy you get in return is tremendous. Don’t let tiny little distractions lead you to inner darkness.
God I really use big words easily 
Try that and you’ll find yourself more in control of your own self.