My intention is not to offend you here, Girlie. But Aishaa2.1 is right. It may not sound all warm and fuzzy and sweet…but she’s right.
Many people want advice that they WANT to hear…and that will sound good to them. We have had posters on GS…who were in destructive situations…and majority of us have advised them to get out of the situation. But they wouldn’t listen to us. They choose to listen only to people who tell them exactly what their heart wants to hear.
As I’ve said before, we can all tell you “Please, Girlie, don’t leave the love of your life. He is definitely the man for you. He’s the best person to live your life with. He’s wonderful, he’s the next Romeo and Prince Charming. IF you move on from him…you will never find a guy like him.”
^But YOU have to decide for YOURSELF what path you want to take in life because you know YOURSELF better than we do. You know YOUR BF better than we do. Just think about everything, create a deadline for your boyfriend. Give him a time frame to make a decision. And invite his mom over to learn more about her. And pray Istikhara and ask Allah for guidance. There’s not much else that can be said about the situation.