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what happens if you fall in love with a hindu? would you make them convert? would you sin and elope?
(btw let me remind you that marrying hindus is not allowed in islam)
Why fall in love with a hindu guy when you know its GUNAH
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thankas for the input bhabhi:)
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Why fall in love with a hindu guy when you know its GUNAH
Hindus should follow the same rule.
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Kings have given up their throne, people have commited suicide, thoughts become sooo focused on one person only - your love.
You cannot think, eat, study, sleep nothing. You do not know what to do, you want to hate the person who has made you lose control on yourself - but your heart flutters madly even with the slight thought of the other person. Their hands, their smile, their andaz, their hair - their everything.
You blush and cannot think or say anything when the person you love is close to you. You want to always be with them, the mere touch of the person makes your heart race out of control. You sigh a lot, you lose interest in your friends, you want to be alone with your thoughts.
It is a helpless feeling, religion, caste, creed, money everything becomes meaningless. Its a hopeless feeling.
No wonder they say love is blind.
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agree with your vivid explanation of falling in love malhot :)
So for those who are saying dont fall in love with Hindu/Muslim etc...well its not always possible that love gives you a chance to choose.
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I think most ppl know their limits.
If I always felt a certain type of guys were attractive, that doesn't mean I'd start any romantic relationship w/ them because I know that I will marry a Muslim/desi and while i don't have anything against hindus/sikhs personally, I don't thnk they're bad ppl or wud make bad spouses, I don't need to marry one to prove it.
All the stuff you described is infatuation/lust, which is strong but dies down quickly like a flame...I know married couples have those moments as well but just having those feelings isn't enough to sustain a lifelong relationship. I know it's not fun or romantic to say, but its true....
And I don't believe in that love at first sight stuff b/c to me it's superficial. How can you love someone you don't know? And for falling in love wiht someone you know...that's not first sight now is it?
Those ppl who cant help falling in love w/ someone they know, well they never set their limits to begin with (i.e., to not get close to someone of the opposite gender that u can't potentially marry b/c they don't think that having male/female friends is in any way wrong.
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I feel bad for the innocent teens that somehow fall in love with their Muslim friend and then have to choose to give up their religion for their love. It's a horrible choice to have to make.
But I do think that marriage is hard enough with the tiny differences that husbands and wives have and then when you add the different religious backgrounds, it'll just be another reason for immature spouses to argue about.
So I would personally prefer my husband to be the same religion as me and I don't think I could ever change my religion or myself for my love... they obviously don't love me enough since they are making me change a part of myself just so the population of people of their religion would go up. I wouldn't be comfortable with a person like that.
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Laila Majnu, Heer Ranja, Romeo & Juliet - True love is: emortal, pure, selfless and blind.
Maybe its God's way of 'marriage' between man & women for eternity (Our arranged 'marriages' compared to true love is like 'legal sex' between couples).
This cannot be compared to lust - because in this emotional binding the 'true love' is ready to give his/her life for the other persons wellbeing.
Fortunately, it does not happen to many of us.
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Hindus should follow the same rule.
:)
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Gosh it seems that malhot and i are the only ones who believe in the existence of "hopelessly romantic love" ??
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u mean love at first sight?
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^^ You refer to my comment aisha? If so ...no I dont necessarily mean love at first sight. Sometimes you can be friends/colleagues/acquaintances and some scenarios may suddenly make you realise that there is something special there. Just an example, but you may see someone all the time and he/she travels or goes away for some time and it may hit Gosh I miss him/her. Or perhaps he/she passes a certain comment which kind of makes you see a whole lot of sense.
Anyway, for the record, I do not advocate this head-over-heels type of love simply cos it is very risky...but all I am saying is it does exist (as opposed to always equating it with lust) and it can work!...sometimes :)
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Yes i was referring to your comment:)
thanx for sharing your opinion
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Hindus should follow the same rule.
you can't control man, they are more good looking then us as per Moin's Rule#1 and i accept too :)
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Aly-sam- I agree, its stupid to fall head over heels in love - but it does happen.
In most cases with disasterous consequencies. History is full of such examples.
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Aly-sam- I agree, its stupid to fall head over heels in love - but it does happen.
In most cases with disasterous consequencies. History is full of such examples.
yea love at first sight for me is just lust at first sight because all you see is the outside beauty of the person and not how they really are from the inside.
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i agree with your point.
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If you really love some1, why would you want to convert him/her??? you cant have the cake and eat it too.its either love or religion. you dont really plan to fall in love with some1. whr its the stupid love at first sight drama or the sudden realisation of special feelings for some1 you have know for long.
its either this way or that.
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pallav what if that someone is hindu and he loves you too
its mutual and he wants to convert then?
sorry i cant control ..i had to