Re: Him or Family???
it is tough, I went through the same, diff is I am from pak and he is from india, and we were in canada. His family was very supportive and mine was just like yours. Our families were very similar too, but still they way things are said/communicated, sometimes it is not understood the same way, and it creates a huge issue.
Your family is right about visa situation, it is a nightmare. PM me if you have any questions.
If you are wondering if I am happy, answer is YES, my husband is very supportive, we had our shares of up and downs, but that is part of any marriage. It is not bed of roses but your perspective can make or break the marriage. You can make your marriage work really well if you 2 are on the same page.
good luck…in these kind of marriages only time can tell if it will work or not, huge gamble!!
do istakhara…I did for almost 3-4 months.
if you don’t mind me asking how did you guys meet? Were you living in a 3rd country? Did you have any visa issues? How did you overcome any family issues? Were any of your family against the marriage because he was from India?
All questions which might help OP.