Re: How to approach a Hijaban?
Well you used my quote which indicated to me that I was indirectly being targeted 
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^lol i totally agree mama ki dua. i've seen and heard of a lot of hijabi girls that aren't shareef at all. and what i find the most annoying is how they sometimes take the hijab off in parties (where other men are) and then wear it again strictly around females..stick to it..some girls just wear it to make themselves appear shareef..again SOME girls..not all.
Re: How to approach a Hijaban?
while we do see that SOME hijabi girls may not be as shareef as we think they are, its wrong to make generalizations. i mean dont approach a hijabi in the wrong way next time just because u assume that she may not be as shareef as she seems.
oh and one more thing: we're all going to die some day and we'll be bringing our own deeds (good/bad) with us to Allah, so pointing fingers at other people wont do any of us any good. my thing is: live and let live.
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...your so not fitting of your nick right now. :@:
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Its so funny to see this thread become a debate about (not) generalizing hijabans rather then helping the person who asked about how to help them.
Isn't it hypocrite of people to say not to generalize and think otherwise while they want their thinking thopofied on what others think. every person is judged by everyone even if some people deny it - i am sure hijabans judge and generalize girls who dont wear the hijaab...
so now can we come back on the track rather then quoting everyone and saying the same thing in our own words!
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NAMAAN !
Originally Posted by Babul Ki Gudiya http://www.paklinks.com/gs/images/buttons/viewpost.gifwell said zobia…Waisay bhi hijab doesn’t affect one’s personality:P na hi hijaab pehney ya na pehney se personality change hojaati haiI totally don’t agree with this part. Our each and every action affects our personality. From the food we eat to dress we wear. And if Hijaab doesn’t affect the personality than why Islam asks us to do it in the first place ???
..well ok dere was a girl who never used to wear hijaab right ..And then she started wearing it..SO did her personality change???.>She’s still de same person..
yes it does prevent her form doing some shirk..less people get attracted from her..less appraisals…since guys don’t stare at her any more..she can easily help anyone out ..she knows now that no one will approach her with a bad intention..isliyee she always offers for her help..She thinks no one has interest in her now..isliyee she tries to make her personality attractive:)
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Since our wonderful posters cannot stay on track I am separating the thread for those of you who wish to discuss girls who misuse hijab for their own purposes. Though I don;t think there is much of a discussion here lets see what u can come up with.
Re: How to approach a Hijaban?
Thanks Mrawah 
Atleast someone understands my point 
I have seen lots of hijabans who do lots of **ghalat **kaam which u wouldn’t expect from them 
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Respected Mod ….. Ya cant blame it all on general users.. At very first place you shant be letting one of your ex moderates to open such a pathetic thread … which sounds like a mere disgusting joke then a real life issue ….
I wonder if a normal user would easily get away by opening such a lame thread like your ex colleague did …
Re: How to approach a Hijaban?
while we do see that SOME hijabi girls may not be as shareef as we think they are, its wrong to make generalizations. i mean dont approach a hijabi in the wrong way next time just because u assume that she may not be as shareef as she seems.
oh and one more thing: we're all going to die some day and we'll be bringing our own deeds (good/bad) with us to Allah, so pointing fingers at other people wont do any of us any good. my thing is: live and let live.
speaking from our experiences or sharing our views doesn't mean we'll approach certain people differently. i've heard stereotypes about many groups..doesn't mean i treat them unfairly and i'm sure other people are the same. i know some very decent hijabis who stay true to their hijab so i'm not pointing fingers at the whole group. and as for the deed thing..that's a whole different subject and i don't think i'm stopping anyone from living!
Re: How to approach a Hijaban?
Its so funny to see this thread become a debate about (not) generalizing hijabans rather then helping the person who asked about how to help them. Isn't it hypocrite of people to say not to generalize and think otherwise while they want their thinking thopofied on what others think. every person is judged by everyone even if some people deny it - i am sure hijabans judge and generalize girls who dont wear the hijaab... so now can we come back on the track rather then quoting everyone and saying the same thing in our own words!
exactly
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and i still couldn’t get what ur trying to say ??? R u saying wearing hijaab makes some one more attractive or attraction gatherer ??
Btw my only point was that YES clothes, eating, drinking, surroundings, friends etc etc … DO affect our personality 
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She's saying that wearing a hijaab doesn't change your personality
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She's saying that wearing a hijaab doesn't change your personality
Ok in this case I totally disagree with her :biggthumb
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LOL let her come. She'll answer you
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Since our wonderful posters cannot stay on track I am separating the thread for those of you who wish to discuss girls who misuse hijab for their own purposes. Though I don;t think there is much of a discussion here lets see what u can come up with.
lol
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speaking from our experiences or sharing our views doesn't mean we'll approach certain people differently. i've heard stereotypes about many groups..doesn't mean i treat them unfairly and i'm sure other people are the same. i know some very decent hijabis who stay true to their hijab so i'm not pointing fingers at the whole group. and as for the deed thing..that's a whole different subject and i don't think i'm stopping anyone from living!
no marwah, the statement 'live and let live' was not meant for you. chill lol
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lol..beenish..you mentioned it in your post so i gave my take on it..as in my opinion isn't stopping anyone from living.. this is an open forum where people are posting their views and everyones entitled to their own opinion..no reason to get personal.
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no reason to get personal! yess! not like it was personal to me..im not a hijabi!
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exactly! :) anywho..i hope to become a hijabi myself one day..but i'm gonna wait till i'm truly ready for it..i don't wanna be the kind of person who keeps taking it off and putting it back on..i wanna stick to it.