Re: How to approach a Hijaban?
while we do see that SOME hijabi girls may not be as shareef as we think they are, its wrong to make generalizations. i mean dont approach a hijabi in the wrong way next time just because u assume that she may not be as shareef as she seems.
oh and one more thing: we're all going to die some day and we'll be bringing our own deeds (good/bad) with us to Allah, so pointing fingers at other people wont do any of us any good. my thing is: live and let live.
speaking from our experiences or sharing our views doesn't mean we'll approach certain people differently. i've heard stereotypes about many groups..doesn't mean i treat them unfairly and i'm sure other people are the same. i know some very decent hijabis who stay true to their hijab so i'm not pointing fingers at the whole group. and as for the deed thing..that's a whole different subject and i don't think i'm stopping anyone from living!