Hijabi

[yanzala]

Re: Hijabi

@BarbieCue

Hmm. I don’t feel awkward when shaking hands with the opposite gender, especially in a formal setting such as interviews, conferences etc. Best to shake someone’s hand for a few seconds then to waste the next 5 minutes explaining to them why you won’t.

Barbie da fatwaa: Shaking hands is okay as long as your dil is paak saaf of haram intentions.

look there is one thing i believe in, ALLAHTALA is my creater, when he made me, he knew what kind weakness’ are build in me, and where and when i can fall under shaytaan’s spell (or what ever u wanna call it) therefore he made restrictions for me to follow so my life will remain simple, and i stay out of trouble.
if ALLAHTALA say touching na mehram is haram, than regardless of what limited aqal, and logic tells me i will believe it, because ALLAHTALA knows the best and everything that i can’t even imagine ever knowing.
yes i think my dil is paak saaf, but guess what there is shaytaan with everyone, who can “behka you” and unless i am a farishta (which i am not) i can’t claim that i am stronger than a normal human (that ALLAHTALA made those restrictions for).