Re: Hijabi Brides
o dear all
salam
how a nice conversation is here...let me join
let me add first im talking abt main not all....as in every country caring hijabi or even naked ppl r...
i see ARAB girls wear tight but long black Aba...& full hair covered...
some other arabs specilay lebeniese same long dresses or skirt but tight & full hair & sometimes chest covered with scarf...
i was in Turkey their hijabi girls wearing very very tight dresses(in most public i mean) like skirt & sgirt or pant & shirt ...& wear a scarf & also a cloth under it that no hairs come out by mistake...
i also saw pakistanies...care abt their chest area to wear loose but their hairs left(i talk abt most public)
so according my own experience...none is complete...but according hijab may thoes arab who wear more just sometimes their aba is tight its better than all of these...
but among rest i feel a pakistani who wears decent dresses is more near to main propose of hijab than turkish....but in first look it may seem o turkish wears hijab pakistanies dont..(it was idea of many ppl arround me in first look)...but after a min thinking...no pakistanies does better in competition of noncomplete hijab cuz atleast they care abt not seem sexy than only care abt covering hairs...
hairs r beautiful more than being sexy(most men admit it even may some men feel sexy i talk abt major ideas)
but body attractive is abt sex than beauty...
so dear all...here we dont have fight...some cares hijab some doesnt...some care complete...some care limit...some care according their culture & less than limit...
main issue of hijab has 2 condition
1.wearing full body except face & both hands
2.avoid jewl make up or any speciall dress to attract eyes(surly mean sexy eyes not simple look as u r walking & ppl see u as they pass arround u)
so simply anyone who cares for hijab...will have wedding ...in a culture like pakistan that u hardly have seprate wedding so all will see Bride...she is in attention even if she wont wear bridal jewl make up & etc...
if she cant leave make up according any issue...means she should leave all she can do for covering also???
also that bridal dress u have & ur big jewl may make u seem nicer but not sexy realy...& according catching eyes on u watever u do as a Bride u r in eyes...so u should go for nice make up but it shouldnt be sexy(there is many style of making up in natural way ..they make up u just with repair ur face to seem shining than putting sexy colors for being sexy)...also rest things
cuz beauty is different as u sit as a Bride anyhow u catched eyes so now u shouldnt seem sexy but beautful is else....
i dont admit if u can make seprate parties if u have that situation its Only real islamic way...other ways u do is not minimum limit of wat islam wants but still its may Maximum u could do...
So there is no laugh on why a bride sit with hijab & jewl & make up....she belives in hijab so she did wats she could do but she also knows thats not full hijab but still she has first condition of covering...less is better than none??? atleast for whom does belive in it...
for whom doesnt belive so none seem logic
any idea?