Hijab after shaadi

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i am not getting married yet.. i m not even engaged.. but i guess I am curious… if i wear hijab and my in-laws dont… will there be difficulties.. i mean have people faced problems like this before??? if yes how did u work it out… i would never want to lose my hijab but i dont want to have problems either

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i dont think so there should be any problem because u r not doing any thing wrong

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Re: Hijab after shaadi

Hoor gannay chuppo wali strategy lagti hay aap key.

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what does that mean

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Re: Hijab after shaadi

just wear it and dont try to act superior and dont give them lectures abt it. be ur self, act normal as if there is no such thing on ur head. importantly dont make it such an issue or a big fuss abt it, everything should go smoothly. Allah knows the best.
SalamAlikum

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Do you already have someone? Have you talked to him about this issue?

Or you are just wondering what if?

I think most families will welcome you! :hypo:

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If they know that you wear hijab prior to marriage, I don't see why they'd care if you kept wearing it or not.

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If they respect you and understand why your hijab is important to you, then they shouldnt make a problem of it. If they dont respect you...then...

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It should not be a problem that you wear a hijab. But of course this can be discussed with potential spouse beforehand, and mentioned how important this is to you. If anyone does have a problem with what YOU believe is important, than that person isn't worth your time....

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If you're not even engaged then whoever asks for your hand will already know you wear it and if they have problems with it, they won't bother with you in the first place.

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Hun, when they come to see you, I am sure they will see your hijab as well. I think there's a certain respect attached with hijab but if for any reason they are unhappy with it, they will tell you prior to marriage. But it should really be between you and who you're marrying, not his whole khandaan.

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These are things are pretty much discussed before the rishta pakka,the people who don't like it "wo apka rishta nahi maangay ge"....
And if u'r talkin abt wearin it after shaadi then depends on ur hubby inlaws etc...im sure u'll ask them first.

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No one in my family wears a hijab. When my chacha got married, he married a girl that wore a hijab and he basically told her not to wear it anymore. So now she only wears it when she goes shopping etc. She doesn't wear it when she goes out with him or when they go to parties/events. Sucks. She should have continued to wear it if she wanted to. Chacha's a real idiot.

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^ lol... but personal choice sumorani isn't it. And its between ur chacha and his wife if their happy shouldn't b a prob.. what say?

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