Hiding your married status from colleagues at work

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Re: Hiding your married status from colleagues at work

@Reha

I have two accounts…one for personal and one for work. Nothing wrong with it at all.

**What I see here is that he’s being a guy. He isn’t talking to women, flirting with women or cheating on you. He says a girl is hot…well…what if she was? He got married, doesn’t mean he isn’t a man anymore.

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We may not like it but he is allowed to find other women pretty. What he isn’t allowed to do is act on it or make you feel unattractive. **

I’m by no means a ‘Life and Relationships’ expert but I did find this part conflicting with your post in the pakieyez thread:

"Not every woman is 1000% secure or able to rationalize every thing away. Everyone has their personal issues, battles and insecurities. For a woman, knowing her husband is interested in only her is important…more important than many things. "

So on one hand, guys are allowed to be guys and appreciate other hot girls but on the other, it is extremely important that a husband makes his wife feel like only she is important?

do you mind clarifying?