Observed some incidents, where people who got a status in society, hesitated introducing their poor parents to their circle?
Couldn’t understand the psyche behind this attitude? Your parents are force behind your status. Their upbringing get you to that status, then why inferiority complex? One should be proud of their parents and present them before anyone without hesitation.
Any views?
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Whattttt, how can someone do this???
Whenever we have guest from village,and my friends are visiting too I proudly introduce them with my relatives.
Jo apne parents ka na ho saka wo Kis ka hoga?
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Well this does happen, and it happens when people care much for their reputation in the society. I do know a lot of people whom have not big family background but they represent themselves as if they are well from generations and the time they have any relative as a guest they do their best to hide them or lie about their relation. I believe they are kind of in spell of the devil and haven nothing to be truly proud about, only showing off happiness from the outside and from inside they are worse than beggars
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But I thought we always need parents no matter if we are young or grown but we always need them to support us emotionally and we need their duas too,
This thread is making me sad :(
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well they are kind of overgrown, they no longer need them. they treat relations like things and things like relations.
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Unfortunately this detachment of relations is being now followed in our societies, where religions and culture put emphasise on importance of relationships especially with parents. We are very near to the time, when oldage homes would be part of our society to dispose of older parents 
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its result of low self esteem.................
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its result of low self esteem.................
Low self esteem?? Or over confident??
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I saw a show where people left their old parents in edhi homes,and one old lady said 
’ aik maa 10 bacho ko paal sakti hai per 10 bache mil ke aik maa ko nahi paal sakte ’
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Low self esteem?? Or over confident??
No one can be termed confident, if he/she is ashamed of his roots and relations
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ek engineer sahab ke dost jab unke ghar aye..to unhe apne walid ko walid kehne me sharm ayi to unhone apne walid ko apne walid ka dost bataya…
magar iss pe unke walid ne jo jawab diya tha…
..i cant post it here
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I saw a show where people left their old parents in edhi homes,and one old lady said :( ' aik maa 10 bacho ko paal sakti hai per 10 bache mil ke aik maa ko nahi paal sakte ' :(
Thats true.
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yeh hotaa hai aur bahot afsosnaak Had tak hotaa hai...mere ek chacha jaan the marHoom...unkii beTii kamzor thii bahot maali taur par...vo ek baar bahot beemaar huiiN to unko specialist ke paas le jaanaa thaa...vo specialist mere uncle ke dost the...unhoN ne sifaarishii Khat likhaa jis meN apnii beTii ko apne dost kii beTii likh kar introduce karvaayaa...uskaa dil phaT kar rah gayaa...magar aaj vohii beTii sab aur bhaiyoN aur bahnoN aur unke bachchoN se ziyaada maaldaar aur saaHib e Haisiyat hai...
...magar, us ne kabhii apne vaalid yaa kisi par zaahir hone diyaa k vo bahot naaraaz haiN is baat se...bas chand ek ko pataa hai jis meN se mere bhai bhii haiN...she is a very nice lady, in deed!
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Ok.
What do you think people avoid introducing their parents because they feel uncomfortable of their backgrounds or they don’t want to make people in their circle uncomfortable because old people give lots of advices (naseehaten)?
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So its a two-way traffic. Parents also disown children 
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PM me. I can make it mild to post here :)
mild hua ke nahi:D
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Ok.
What do you think people avoid introducing their parents because they feel uncomfortable of their backgrounds or they don't want to make people in their circle uncomfortable because old people give lots of advices (naseehaten)?
I believe parents/ grand parents give a lot Of nasihat, but that's the result of what we are today, no?
People hide their parents because of any reason but they forget what goes around comes around.
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Yes but this is less than people hide their parents.