Re: HEY! I am baccckkk! & other issues (hehe)
Hello - I am back from Pakistan - after thinking ACK - forced marriage.
I stood my ground in Pakistan and I am not married. I don’t like the dude and I am over the moon, my parents are surprisingly over it too.
But I have another dilemma - I like another cousin…
AHEM.
Thing is - hes younger by quite a bit, and again lack education - but we get on SO well. Also not sure if its just a mini crush - Or what.
Hes just like someone born here - in thinking, always smiling, not sure if I am confusing our relationship with friendship or something deeper.
Hes just like me an over grown kid. I am not sure if he likes me back - but he did say he liked what I was wearing a few times, I saw him looking at me (on the sly) quite a few times, he sat with me on the way to the airport etc, but that could be just because your my friend/cousin.
He also stroked my hair when it was down a few times, but the second time retracted it when my mum walked into the room.
Thing is he likes this other girl - but hasn’t contacted her for 2 weeks. Now. I am not sure why. I also have his number and he texts me, hes really friendly like crazily friendly so I could be just confusing myself -
What do you all think? How do I find out if he likes me? I really want to say to my parents - that I like him… LOL.
Also I find it crazy that I have a crush on someone like this! but he said to me we are exactly the same - hes right!
I think you are very young. Whatever you have mentioned seems more like a crush. It’s ok if you just want to have some nice time dreaming and having that fuzzy feeling all around but believe me you are not ready to get married to any one at this point in time