HELPPPPPPPPPPPPPPPPPPP!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

[Khumar]

Re: HELPPPPPPPPPPPPPPPPPPP!!!

@omni

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i have talked to him. i gave him time to think. he said that he loved me for me and not for my citizenship or money, so he would stay in england, work hard, and get somewhere in life and then marry me. he asked me for a few years, which i didn’t have a problem giving him. now if i see that he is making progress, or at least trying hard, then i would know that he’s the right guy for me. on the other hand, if i see that he is not putting in any effort at all, then i would know that it’s best to forget him and move on.

many raised an issue about considering such a guy. let me tell you this, money, education, fame; these things don’t mean a thing. what means is whether the person really loves you and will stand by you no matter what happens. two of my aunts are married to two very rich guys of pakistan. they have everything, but neither are their husbands good looking, nor educated (one is not even metric pass), and neither were rich when they got married. and another thing, call it a bollywood sentiment or whatever, but i would rather live in a cardboard box and eat baasi roti with a man who loves me then go through an ugly divorce or mil/sil/other issues with/because of a man who doesn’t care (i have read enough posts about those on this forum)

anywho, i would once again like to thank you all. stay happy and safe, and that is not an ashirwad cuz i am no granny.

byeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeee

@omni

umm and about common sense, common sense is for lazy couch potatoes. i like to understand reality by examining it carefully, not by means of conventional wisdom … ok final bye bye

god, who let you graduate from university?!