Re: HELPPPPPPPPPPPPPPPPPPP!!!
Your story is different from holy moly… to me, there is nothing called hidden marriage… again what good would that bring.. it is secret from his MOM isn’t it.. so whenever secrecy comes from some “Majbori” there comes the scam in it…
imagine marrying him secretly and then he somehow his or your family finds out about it… his family will blame you saying you are awara and desperate and have used their INNOCENT boy..whereas your family will be blaming you for thrashing the family honor… and your friends would be asking you.. why there is secret marriage in the 1st place, if every one is fine with the idea, then have nikah here and get the rukhsati done in years or 2 years time… why the hustle…
I’ll not say that he is only using you or something like that, my opinion about him is that he is sole loser who do not know what he is doing or he is too smart to keep his real plans to himself and playing around to get his things done.. who knows if he has same kind of GFs here in UK… if a guy can have a realtionship with yo, then he is capable of having same from the country he lives in and there it would be easy to en-cash his story by saying that, he is BECHARA who have sold MAMA’s jewelery for the fee but the college turned out to be a fraud and now he is stuck and don’t know what to do.. many would fall for it.. .