The OP’s post has made the husband look like he views his wife as a used piece of trash. That has less to do with his insecurity/religion and more to do with his perspective no women in general.
If a woman posted this issue, we’d have the same reaction.
Yes well, what men aspire to be (especially these days) and what a woman may find worthy in a man may not be the same thing. Women should be putting their own interests first - the woman being posted about especially.