Re: Help.
You have an interesting point there… but its not about virginity and pride… its about trust… her confessing her sins after she gets married and then asserting that he should forgive her and forget about it and respect her honesty… how much of a choice she has left him any ways .. just shove this bitter truth down his throat or get divorced… easier said than done… and if she chooses to stay quiet then what could have happened if he finds out about this from someone else at a later point in his married life… wouldn’t that be a major catastrophe on his marriage then…?
But hey, there are people that are able to move on with these kind of things in life… some cannot… God forbid some women go though harsh tragedies in their life… people shouldn’t judge them…