Re: Help.
Hey
A work colleague of mine is going through a seriously complicated relationship issue.He had nikah done almost a month ago, he is 24 and she is 21 both are young and the guy is nice and naive.He calls me bara bhai and respects me immensely.Now, he is really depressed due to a sad reality which his wife revealed to him about her past.She happen to be a non-virgin for which she expects him to forgive and forget.He has never been into any kind of a relationship, he thinks he can forgive and move on but cannot forget.There rishtha was fully arranged and she is from his family.She was betrayed & thinks he should consider and give priority to her honesty.He thinks he can never give hera respect which a wife deserves and there bond would only have sympathy rather than love.
Please share your thoughts, give me some valid points and what should I suggest him.I am zilch regarding relationship advice and he is asking me to help.
And serious replies please!!
The girl should have told this to him before the marriage, how long are they married? In any case I think the guy should forgive and move on, hopefully Allah will forgive his shortcomings.