Re: help please!
I dont think thats a very nice thing to say. Maybe u should keep ur comments out of the ‘messed up’ girls thread.
Princess - I think u need to evaluate all parts of ur relationship. Marriage is a start not the end. You have MA got into med school and thats a big deal. Think about the furture, someone being nice to u doesnt put roti on the table. U will learn as time goes on, 19 is the age when u start seeing things differently, u experience differnt mind sets.
I personally would advise u to concentrate on ur studies and ur future and leave the bf to the side. if he really cares about u, he will support u, not demand u to do what he wants. U mentioned that ur not confident infront of him, thats because he has made u feel unconfident with him. just that should suggest alot.
Older guys have a way to manipulate u, look at urself for instance, ur 19 now and ur using ur head and thinkin of ur future, at 22 year old a guy has more knowledge about his ambitions, futiure etc than a 14year old. he was more wise than u are now 8 years ago. I wud get out while uv got the chance. are u really going to give up ur hard work and dr status to look after his mother and family. thats not ur responsibility, its his