Re: help please!
Want some legit advice from a guy? Bail.
He was 22 and you were 14. That is disturbing to be honest. I mean in this day and age that is wholly inappropriate. Let me lay down some points for you to consider.
- He had/has no game and was/is socially awkward. He hooked up with a 14 year old when he was 22. Sheesh!
- He has successfully groomed you throughout this time. You practically obey him.
- He knows how to work you. He cries, you run back to him. He’s proper gotten into your head.
- He will suffocate you emotionally. I can say that with about 99.9% certainty. Odds you don’t want to walk in with.
- You have difficulty imagining a life without him because you have never lived another life. He practically nipped you straight at the bud!
Let me make a few uneducated guesses. I might be wrong but I want to take a shot anyway.
- He tells you that you guys are special. You guys have true love or whatever. He cares for you more than anything. But you are the one who needs to compromise.
- He has problems with you socialising with other males. He has problems with you doing anything with the opposite sex. He probably gets mad then apologizes.
- He talks about religion and what not all the while behaving in a not-so-religious manner with you. I might be way out field with this and I apologise if I’m wrong but I think you’ve had conversations bordering on dodgy with him.
- He gives you the whole guilt trip whenever you argue. He’s been with you for so long. He’s invested so much into the relationship.
Sorry if I seem a bit harsh. But I just don’t buy that dude.