Re: help please!
^You need to talk to him about your concerns, discuss options/ways of managing them. Him telling you what you should do and you agreeing automatically…is not a discussion or even a healthy relationship.
Your situation reminds me of one of my friends. She met the when she was 16…and he was 7 years older than her. She married him at 18. They have 3 kids and are still married…but she feels frustrated and has some resentment…and sometimes wishes that she had married much later in life so that would have been more sure of herself as an individual…know her own mind…as opposed to agreeing with anything and everything her husband would say or believe. And in her case…it was more than just being young…she’s not very confident either. So, sort things out with him…have your parents discuss things with him…talk to your parents about your concerns as well. Don’t rush into this. Take a break and really really really think everything through.