I would be the last person to give any worthy advice on this subject. I am usually thinking of ways to get out free and single when I hear of a rishta. My bp drops and I get depressed and I hope something goes wrong and it always does one way or the otehr :(
I'm a mess.
You girls need to change with the changing times. It's Ok to meet prospective life partners. It's a learning curve.
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I would be the last person to give any worthy advice on this subject. I am usually thinking of ways to get out free and single when I hear of a rishta. My bp drops and I get depressed and I hope something goes wrong and it always does one way or the otehr :(
I'm a mess.
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we'r not that different then, u and me chick..
u see..i have this theory abt stressing and worrying abt things
the more i stress and the more i worry...nothing ever happens!!
this thread is helping me worry and therefore in a sub-conscious level im hoping he cancels or something to that effect!
its silly i know...but its always worked for me
just relax missy 
relax take a deep breath, and try to be yourself. Your a nice girl mashAllah, just act as yourself and all will be good 
edit, haanji aik cheez: dont start with :WHATS YOUR NAME CHICK 
edit 2 : keep me updated how he is a pic would be best :halo:
You know whether you can get along with someone or not within an hour of the meeting. That is why a meeting is preferred over online chats, phones and the dreaded pictures. I prefer a one on one meeting over any other kind of arrangement…I avoid chai ceremonies and group of friends meet..you don’t really get to know the person in such environments.…It is an arranged meet for a particular purpose..talk friggin business..talk things that are important to you whether that is career, looks, money…talk about your priorities in life. Majority of the times twenty five year olds don’t know what questions to ask or what to expect..you might have to lead the conversation..but it sounds like you are some kind of a wonder woman yourself j/k
The last time I met a girl for this purpose, I made her so comfortable that she bluntly rejected me 
…we laughed it off .. we knew we were different people after fifteen minutes of conversation..but I guess her parents thought otherwise..I had to give them a marriage 101 afterwards 
If I were to add anything on this subject, I’d just say make the most of the meeting…your goal should be to leave the meeting knowing what you are going to do. If you are unsure..tell him you are unsure ..don’t raise his expectations..It’s not about rejections or acceptances…you meet ppl..you meet some more ..make the right choice at the end.
yeh..im a nice girl to u ..only cos i cant and probably will never see u…nah im kidding..ur cute..
wots wrong with asking his name chick?
ok..you actually made sense to me..Thank You chick
ur right, ur all right…i was just being silly, i suppose im lucky in the sense that i get to meet him before my family do…they might scare him off!!
iv just ironed my outfit and got me shoes sorted so i feel a bit better now!!!
Thanks to everyone who replied..bless u chicks…
ch ch i feel bad for the guy. He is prolly getting ready to meet his sapno ki rani lekin usey kya pata key MM has diff. plans.
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ch ch i feel bad for the guy. He is prolly getting ready to meet his sapno ki rani lekin usey kya pata key MM has diff. plans.
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and what exactly are my plans chick?
i dnt wana be his "sapno ki rani" anyway this aint no hindi film u know..its my life we'r talking abt!!!!!!
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So have you meet him or are you meeting him tommorrow?
Anyway Good Luck!
I PMed you instead. smile
ok chicks…its all over
iv met him..
it was the longest hour of my whole life!!!
this is gona sound do stupid but i really dnt know how to describe what im feeling right now
He was a really nice guy though, not what i expected..he didnt really ask any questions at all..it was more like a conversation between two new ppl rather than the whole “potential” thing
It was slightly uncomfortable though, as i spoke too much and more or less led the conversation and then when i would stop speaking there was silence,…i waited for him to speak..and he didnt he just kept staring at me…so i had start speaking again…hes gona think im proper gobby…but i hate silences ..they are soo annoying!
ok i think now i should start breathing again
Thanks for all ur advice chicks..
thanks for the pm munni..ur a doll
oh come on! tell us moreeeeee! :p
so what did you two talk about?. you owe us at least that much for giving you all the advice 
Rozeeeeeeeeeeeeeee
we need u to be more clear 
and did u ask what I asked u to ask?
bloody hell...i knew i should have kept me mouth shut abt wen i was meeting him!!
ok..so basically..i did all the talking..he didnt ask me anything at all..which ever questions i asked him he answered then shup up, so i gave my answers myself..voluntarily
he just kept staring at me..and i was grinning bak at him like an idiot..
i started every conversation...i allowed pauses for him to speak..and he never...he just kept staring
But, he did seem like a very nice guy...simple minded genuine person type of guy
very opposite to me
there,..i think thats enough now
too much exposure of my life is very boring after a while
and no mr chick..no pic..
Maybe it was "love at first sight" for him. ;-)
frockers
ok fair enough :k:
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Maybe it was "love at first sight" for him. ;-)
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i wish chick!
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i wish chick!
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didnt u ask what he thought? :)