Can/Should we move this to Life1 now?
Good idea.
Hello
Dear do move my thread to life and relationship because I have to discuss some more family problem which are killing me now a days and plz plz plz dont leave me alone and do reply and help me all of you for that also like this its a humble request
^could you also answer the questions farrah posted above because they are important to really understand the underlying issues with your problem.
[quote="farrah, post:41, topic:205827"]
i am still confused
questions:
- did your husband say things about your breasts before too, and looked at and complimented other big boobed women around you? (you had love marriage .. so i am assuming you guys were dating pre-hand)
- were your in-laws against you guys' wedding?
- was it one sided love, and you somehow ended up being married? how is it possible that the entire purpose of your life is your husband, but his entire purpose is big boobs?
- is your husband influenced by your MIL/SIL a lot?
- do you have a conservative in-laws or is it just with you that they dont let you go out and have friends and all?
ANSWERS****************
1.no he did not comment any thing he don't comment frequently I dont have any complaint for him I thought this is my abnormality
2 yes my in laws were against our wedding they are jealous from me always make fun of my face body style and every thing
3 we both love each other deadly ( breast is not issue right now because the situation i m facing is very serious more then my abnormality )
4 no he dont believe his mom and sis because he knows their nature
5 yes they dont even let me go out with my hubby many times i dont have a permission to even go down stairs without asking to my mother in law i cant go market or some where else without asking her this is my father in laws order which i and my hubby have to abey
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i THINK MOD MUST MOVE MY ISSUE TO LIFE AND RELATION SHIP WELL I THINK ITS HEALTH ISSUE TOO MY IN LAWS ARE MAKING ME PSYCHO PATIENT WITH THEIR WORST BEHAVE i CANT SLEEP WELL I CANT THINK ABOUT ANY THING ELSE ALWAYS THINKING ABB KIA HOGA AND WHAT IS HAPPENING I EVEN BEHAVE RUDELY MANY TIMES TO MY HUBBY STILL HE IS TREATING ME WITH CARE AND LOVE BUT I CAME ANGRY TO HIM FOR SMALL THINGS JUST BECAUSE OF THE BEHAVE OF HIS FAMILY
Hi I have a problem of small breast size I am loosing my self confidence I going to die I have start hating my self My husband is loosing intrest in me he use to say that dont wear this or that type of dress you dont have a figure for these things (plzz dont start to give him comments because this is not the solution)I had post this problem once before here but I did nt got any solution even I talk to the doctor and she said NO CHANCE when i ask about the tablates or cream to firm she said they are harm ful and use less even i put on weight just to sort out the problem but still no result I also ate cheese and did some exercises but still no results I cant go for operation is there any hope for me I am extremely depressed
Hello,just go for breast implant and visit some plastic surgeon in the town
i THINK MOD MUST MOVE MY ISSUE TO LIFE AND RELATION SHIP WELL I THINK ITS HEALTH ISSUE TOO MY IN LAWS ARE MAKING ME PSYCHO PATIENT WITH THEIR WORST BEHAVE i CANT SLEEP WELL I CANT THINK ABOUT ANY THING ELSE ALWAYS THINKING ABB KIA HOGA AND WHAT IS HAPPENING I EVEN BEHAVE RUDELY MANY TIMES TO MY HUBBY STILL HE IS TREATING ME WITH CARE AND LOVE BUT I CAME ANGRY TO HIM FOR SMALL THINGS JUST BECAUSE OF THE BEHAVE OF HIS FAMILY
Ive split your thread from the last long post and moved it to Life1.
Hope you find better answers there.
Good luck!
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i dont think he is treating you with LOVE When he is commenting on ur rack-size. What a wierdo.
Rida - Why don't u tell HIM to change HIS SIZE too? Let's see how he feels when he think's he is too small for your liking, do u think he will be able to INCREASE the size of his thing???
Sorry - I don't normally resort to comments like that but this is just ridiculous! He needs to understand that just like he cannot change the size of his dangly bits, NEITHER can you.
Everyone is made different, and there is no uniform size for everyone. You both should understand that you cannot change your bust size by EATING CHEESE.
Cheese is for one thing only, and that is for CRACKERS.
LOL!
Rida......................Your in-laws are doing zulm on on you. Aur upar se your "choohay jaisa husband" is making fun of your breast size? Tumharay husband main itni himmat nahin k woh apni maa aur behan k khilaf tumharay liye koi stand lay. Tumharay husband main itni taaqat nahin k woh tumhay zulm se bachaye...................aur upar se ussay breast size ki fikar hai????
Tumharay husband k dimagh main bhoosa bhara hua hai ya????? Tumhari dono threads parh kar kabhi main sochti hoon k kya tumhara husband koi game to nahin khel raha tumharay saath?????
Tum kehti ho k jab tum apnay father k paas jaati ho.........to husband baby ki tarha rota hai. Lekin jab tum wapis susral aati ho.........to husband tumhay saas aur nand k zulm se NAA to bachata hai.........aur oopar se tumhara mazak urata hai.....tumhari feelings ko karta hai.........maa/behan k saath mil kar tumhari baizzati karta hai???????????????
Kabhi main sochti hoon k tumharay husbad ko dil-hi-dil main maza aata hai tumhay tang karne main. Ab tum socho...........jab tum chali jaati ho..........to us k ronay ka kya faida jab k woh KHUD tumhari izzat hi nahin karta. Zara socho.................kya pata ka woch jaan booj kar "ronay dhonay" ki acting karta ho..........taakay tum kamzor ho kar wapis aa jao aur woh PHIR apni maa/behan k saath mil kar tumhay hurt karay???????????????
Socho Rida.............bahut kam husbands hain jo k apni wife k jaanay par aansoo bahatay hain. Aisi bahut biwiyan hain jo k kuch dair k liye apne husbands ko chor k chali jaati hain..........aur un k husbands ronay-dhonay ka drama to nahin kartay.
Zara socho Rida............kya tumhay apnay husband ka behavior ajeeb nahin lagta??????? Main tumhay example deti hoon. Meray papa meri mama ki bahut respect kartay hain. Agar meri Mama apni family ki taraf kuch dair k liye jaaye.............to meray Papa rotay to nahin hain. Is tarha ka filmi behavior to mainay jawan couples main bhi nahin dekha.
Agar tumhara husband tumhari BAHUT izzat karta......BAHUT protect karta.......BAHUT pyar karta....................tab to shayad tumhari judai par rona-dhona samajh main aata. LEKIN jab husband tumhari maujoodgi main tumhari respect nahin kar sakta................to rona-dhona kis baat ka?
Ab main tumhay aik aur example deti hoon. Farz karo k class main aik aisa bacha/student hai jis ki ghunday-jaisi personality ho. Aur yeh bacha tumhara mazak urata hai......tumhay tang karta hai. Yeh bacha sochta hai k tumhay tang karne se woh khud to "ooncha" "taaqatwar" bana raha hai. Aur yeh bacha roz roz tumhay tang/hurt karta hai. Ab socho......................k tum aik haftay k liye school nahin aati. Zahir hai k us bachay ko TAKLEEF to hogi k tum school kyoon nahin aayi. Tum school nahin aao gi..........to us ka maqsad kaisay poora hoga?
Ab tum apnay husband ko mujh se behtar jaanti ho. Agar husband ki neeyat aisi nahin hai..............to I'm sorry k mainay yeh idea tumhay suggest kiya.
hi i suggest you a see atherapist for body image issues.
small breasts have so many advantages and can look just as nice as larger ones.
if not you can always get breast implants.
my husband always say plz increase your size and that body to barhay ja rahi hai to breast kiu nahi barhtay
I would slap him silly! Seriously how damn insensitive and you put up with it?
Rida - Why don't u tell HIM to change HIS SIZE too? Let's see how he feels when he think's he is too small for your liking, do u think he will be able to INCREASE the size of his thing???
Sorry - I don't normally resort to comments like that but this is just ridiculous! He needs to understand that just like he cannot change the size of his dangly bits, NEITHER can you.
Everyone is made different, and there is no uniform size for everyone. You both should understand that you cannot change your bust size by EATING CHEESE.
Cheese is for one thing only, and that is for CRACKERS.
Seriously I was gonna make a comment of similar nature! But refrained. I bet he'd go postal if he were told to increase his size. Jeez.
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rida honey....why dont u google how to increase bust size....ull get loads of tips n exercise......u can even find excercises on you tube....u just have to chek......
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i cant believe how your husband has been making you feel. you deserve so much better but obviously you have to put up with him. seriosuly, you should tie him up and leave him to bake out in the sun. lol.
Hi all,
All are giving best solution to you, first of all, i need to say you that don't ever try to loose your weight, if you are trying to do so, you will definitely loose your breast size also, and you told that your size is 32, not that much bad, i thought you have to wear designer lingerie in front of your husband, and i am damn sure he will definitely praise for you, but try to wear some unique designer lingerie, that attracts him, try to change yourself, be confident in front of him, don't be ever feel nervous.
I show you, try to wear something like this, whenever you both are alone,
you get the idea...wear some lingerie...
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^the first pic is hawwtt :)