Rida - Why don't u tell HIM to change HIS SIZE too? Let's see how he feels when he think's he is too small for your liking, do u think he will be able to INCREASE the size of his thing???
Sorry - I don't normally resort to comments like that but this is just ridiculous! He needs to understand that just like he cannot change the size of his dangly bits, NEITHER can you.
Everyone is made different, and there is no uniform size for everyone. You both should understand that you cannot change your bust size by EATING CHEESE.
Cheese is for one thing only, and that is for CRACKERS.
Stick to a healthy diet and be happy with yourself. I agree with the others, CONFIDENCE is the answer. I have a friend who is also 32A - she wears padded bra's and walks with confidence, she always gets attention (not that I'm advocating everyone should strut their stuff for attention) so her figure is obviously attractive to others.
ok there are a few easy solutions but don't work for everyone:
gain a bit of weight but the healthy way - eat nuts, drink full fat milk and have full fat yogurt... this wont make you gain too much weight but it would help your health too
try using brith control pills... some increase water retention that result in swollen breasts
getting pregnant is a sure way to increase that size but do that only when your ready to have kids or tell him to wait till ur pregnant and for now love you for you :)
and i agree with everyone that is saying that if you are confident and love your body only then he will find u attractive
p.s. i have a friend with the same problem and i am sorry to disappoint you but even the birth control pills didnt work for her
the only thing that worked a LITTLE was gaining a bit of weight
and pregnany can only happen when you're ready for it
and please don't get implants... there are a lot of complications and you will have to get them replaced too...they are not for life
when did u get married ?? i was 34B before marriage and now after 3rd kid i'm 36D so dont worry after getting pregnant ur size will definitely increase ..... anyways i just read in some magezine that make a paste of black cumin seeds ( kala zeera ) and water and apply it on both breast for whole night , do it daily ... i dont know it works or not but u can try it if u want .....
Hi
I have a problem of small breast size I am loosing my self confidence I going to die I have start hating my self My husband is loosing intrest in me he use to say that dont wear this or that type of dress you dont have a figure for these things (plzz dont start to give him comments because this is not the solution)I had post this problem once before here but I did nt got any solution even I talk to the doctor and she said NO CHANCE when i ask about the tablates or cream to firm she said they are harm ful and use less even i put on weight just to sort out the problem but still no result I also ate cheese and did some exercises but still no results I cant go for operation is there any hope for me I am extremely depressed
Hi Rida,
Breasts are made up of mostly fat. When women lose weight.....their breasts can become smaller. Similarly as women gain weight....their breasts become bigger. This isn't a guarantee.....but many women experience this. Your breast size can also be genetic. Exercising will not only tone and firm your breasts but slso your body and will make you look more attractive overall. Pregnancy can cause breast enlargement in women.
As far as your clothes are concerned.....go to a good lingerie store....you can have your bra size measured. Many women are wearing the wrong bra size....either it's too loose or too tight and it ruins the overall shape/presentation in clothes. So....get yourself measured at a store such as Victoria's Secret. And then the expert can recommend bras that make you look fuller such as a push-up bra.
Sometimes ill-fitting clothes can also make for an unflattering body shape. Ruffled tops and empire waists are flattering for women with a smaller bust. Instead of scrutinizing the negative........why not draw attention to the positive? If you have an enviable tiny waist......why not draw attention to that? Play up your features that you like.
And you may not want to hear this.......but I'm going to say it anyways. Don't defend your husband, hon. He knew what you looked like before he agreed to marry you. He knew from day 1 that you were not a busty woman but he married you anyways. So what is his problem now? If he specifically wanted a woman with huge boobs........then he should have married one. He should have told his mommy, "Ammi....find me a larki with with big melons." He married you.....he needs to except responsibility for his decision. How would he feel if you constantly told him that his nose is too big or that ...ahem ahem ahem...certain parts of his fall short?????
Confidence cannot be acquired with plastic surgery, it comes from inside. You are not defined by breasts.....you are a woman with many positive personality traits and strengths. And if you can't realize that...........then all the creams and plastic surgery in the world will not help you. And let's say that you DO get breast augmentation surgery........and your husband becomed happy. What will he criticize you for next? As you grow older will he make fun of your wrinkles? Let's say that you gain weight after having children.........will your husband constantly remind you that you're fat. Or will he start criticizing your nose? Where will it end?
Talk to your husband about his behavior. Tell him that he should have examined every rishta's breast size before agreeing to a marriage. Tell him how offensive his behavior is and ask him if he would like it if you did the same to him. The next time that he makes fun of you.........give him a strong confident response. Do not start crying or getting sad.......people take advantage of those who appear weak and then they tease them even more. You teach people how to treat you. Give him a taste of his own bitter medicine.
I'm surprised that she doesn't seem to question her husband's behavior or find anything wrong with it. It's not healthy to be surrounded by someone who is forever chipping away at your self-esteem and sense of worth. When you feel low about yourself....this can manifest itself in your relationships with others.
Talk to your husband about his behavior. Tell him that he should have examined every rishta's breast size before agreeing to a marriage.
Great points before RV! The problem here has nothing to do with her but everything to do with her Husband and his insecurities! He is so offensive its maddening. She deserves so much better than him!
Go on youtube.com and watch the TLC video unpretty!
Never insecure until I met you
Now I'm bein' stupid
I used to be so cute to me
Just a little bit skinny
Why do I look to all these things
To keep you happy
Maybe get rid of you
And then I'll get back to me
i think breast feeding and sucking helps so may b ask for husband to help as u dont hav anyone to bf :) also i know massages make difference. try warm olive oil massages.
i was 32B too b4 marriage. my mom used to worry n depress me like ur hubby does to u. but afterwards i grew n now after kids i wanna go one size smaller.
nobody is perfect so plz dont feel bad abt your figure ...it's fine ..... all living creatures man , animals and plants comes in different shapes and sizes thats the way almighty has created us.
your husband must have seen you b4 getting married to you? now why is he complaining so much ? tell him that it hurts you when he speaks in such a way. tell him that you love him for the way he is ( he must also be having something that u dont like ! ) and he should also love u for the way you are. tell him not to again speak ill about your body again. it's rude very rude :(
You are what you are...Allah wanted you to be what you are now...
If he like big boobs...than it's really sorry for him....Coz you can't change yourself...And you shouldn't change yourself..he has to accept you for what you are...
And if you'll have big boobs after a surgery..will it make you happy?? U are not gonna be yourself....
You need boobs for having self confidence?? I don't think so...there are a lots of things that are needed for having self confidence...like looking nice....doing things that you like....etc etc etc....
Your husband...pehle decide kar lethe ke big breast wali larki chahiye!!!!!
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