help me to learn how to let go

[parisbynight]

Re: help me to learn how to let go

@BellaShabba

Im the eldest and when i moved away i found it difficult and worried about my mum alot (single parent as my dad passed away) i do speak to her everyday but if she doesnt message or call i dont stress her when i do speak to her that oh why didnt you call. As for money wise my mum i know struggles but alhumdulilah me and my siblings are quite helpful, its just one of those thjngs we take care of our expenses to lessen the burden

You need to learn to let go. Just focus on your marriage they will be happy knowing you are happy. As for your siblings for calling you kanjoos simple reply ‘how about you gift me for a change since ive moved away and you all miss me so much’ honestly its not just your responsiblity. And didnt you say in a previous thread that theyve planned stuff for 4 weeks for yoh and ur hubby? Are they paying or u?just learn to create a balance

The last thing you want is ur marriage effected.

They have planned outings, but we will all pay for our own share which i am fine with as everyone earns.