Re: help me to learn how to let go
i understand your limitations but even a small help like $50 a month will show that you still care and are willing to help as best as you can.
remember one thing. they are part of your family as well and you can not ignore their financial as well as emotional needs. i agree that they should be more concerned to see you happy. if i were your dad, i would hide all my issues and present myself as a happy person just in order to see you happy.
since everyone handles his/her stresses/depressions differently so you have to give him this benefit that he can not handle it well.
isii liye maiN ne kahaa k aapko chaahiye k aap apne maaN baap ko is baat par razamand kareN k vo apnaa depression kaa 'ilaaj karvaayeN taa k vo log behtar zindagiyaaN guzaar sakeN.
i dunno which country you live and if medical expenses are covered or not. so, please consider taking them to a psychiatrist for help.
May Allah make things easy for you and your parents.
what you did for your family in the past is very commendable and everyone should appreciate it. marriage should not end the same level of care and love…do as much as you can.
parents are not gonna be there for ever…help them as best as you can. may Allah bless you and your husband for that. aameen…may Allah also keep you and your family happy and shielded from all the pains and hardships…aameen