help me to learn how to let go

[parisbynight]

Re: help me to learn how to let go

@KKF

seek counselling with one of the psychologists or psychiatrist.

why can’t you still help your parents financially [not as much as before] with whatever you can? you may consider visiting him once in a month if you live the same city. i think your father is at fault also by not caring anymore in terms of making calls to you. he must also not tell you all of his issues but rather tell you “we have some issues but don’t worry we can handle it”.

i think you should talk to them to agree to see a psychiatrist to help them with their depression.

i dont have enough as i have bills to pay and trying to pay off my debt. i have formed enormous debt that i need to repay through my salary while my husband is saving for visa expenses and rent. I feel it’s not fair on him if I ignroe my debt and still offer financial help when he is new to the country and struggling to hit off a normal life with me.