Rida, if you choose to stay there, then face them head on. If your MIL doesnt let you work, YOU DONT LET HER WORK EITHER. If she tries to show she is doing all the work, you do the same.
In front of your husband, always say things like "ammi, bait jayein, mein karleti hoon" or "aap to sara din bas lagi rehti hein, mujhe bhi kuch karne dein na" or if you cook all the time...say stuff like "socha aaj khana bana loon, roz to ammi hi banati hein na".
If you are only going to complain and not take action, no one can help you. If you want to face them, then REALLY FACE THEM.
The key is TO DO EVERYTHING SHE DOES RIGHT BACK TO HER. She is a meethi churi and you need to be the same...nahin karogi to sari zindagi pachtaogi.
Jesa aap nay bataya hai mai wesa hi katri the pehlay per shayad itna ahteram inko raas nahi aya or aab woh chahti hain kay mai bilkul hi gir jaon per mery hubby ka bhi kehna hai kah koi bat kary ya na kary tum kisi say mafii nahi mango g or apni mother ko b mention kia hai kah mai aab kisi say mafi nahi mango g mere MIL to mere shakal nahi dekhna pasand kar rahe baat buhat door ki bat ho gai hai haan aik advice apki mai zaroor amal karoon g kah atleast apny hubby ko feel nahi honay doon g kah mai useless hoon ya koi kaam nahi karte mai karti to aab bhi hoon per mery inlawes chahty hain kah sara kaam mai karo they even dont have any maid aur issue pesay ka nahi hai they dont like to keep any maid aur woh chahty hai mai maid ban jaon jo mai nahi chahti