Help Me (cont'd from HF)

Good advise !!

From my own experience I can tell you that no matter how close you are to your husband complaining abt mil and other in laws doesn't give nice results. Even if you are 100% right . Play the same politics that she is playing. These sugar coated words have a long lasting impact , I didn't learn how to use them and I started paying a price of it from 2nd month of my marriage , I still can't use such language but will strongly advise you to talk in such a way .