Rida, is it possible for you to get a job? I don't know what your educational qualifications are but talk to your husband about the possibility of you getting a job. That way.......you can earn AND save money for a separate home with your husband. Plus........getting a job will allow you several hours of peace away from your in-laws. Talk to your husband about this. Some sort of compromise has to be reached.....otherwise you will be stuck in the rona-dhona zulm ka cycle forever.