Hinna
June 4, 2011, 2:19pm
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Re: Help an ABCD please
So things are still not looking good guys. My mom talked to me today and understandibly she is still not very pleased with me. She’s saying such sad things though and I feel awful. She told me she doesn’t even know what to do with herself. She feels like everything she thought about me is wrong and that I’m a bad person. She keeps on asking me if I have a boyfriend over and over again. She said that she isn’t going to get married now but she’s going to wait until I’m 22 so that I wouldn’t be her responsibility anymore. She also said how she told me all the time that I would never be forced to marry someone who I didn’t want to and that everything would be done with my consent. She was like what else could you possibly want. I guess what’s bothering me the most is that I don’t see how I can regain her trust again. We had such a good relationship but I ruined everything. Ughh. I’m honestly not trying to gain sympathy because I know what I did was wrong, I just need a place to vent and I’ve found it lol.
She’s had a big blow. It’s going to take a while for her to start trusting you. Try to be on your best behaviour like other people mentioned before. Be as open as you can and hopefully Insh’Allah with time, she will begin to trust you again.