AOA,
i never thought i wld actually be writing one of such issues, which i have been reading here on GS.
well, my brother got engaged to our cousin. It’s been 6-7 months ( arranged) . A month back my brother called me and he seemed very upset, saying that our cousin behaves very badly, does not respect our family & him and on top of all that, she talks in a manner which hurts my brother. I cooled him down, and said him, u tend to fight between engagement period, its normal, just try to be calm and ignore if she says something which hurts you etc etc
now, he called me again yesterday, he was very very furious, and angry and he said he wants to get out of it now :S i talked to my mother and she said she’s very much worried because of what is going on between the two.
NOW, i need opinion, I said to my brother that i’ll talk to our cousin, (becoz it is important to know her point of view ofcourse, i cant 100% accept what brother dear is saying, i need to know the problem and issues of my bhabi-to-be too). I am really really skeptical and scared, that SHOULD i talk to her about this matter or not? How will she take it? she is younger than me ( 6 -7 years), we always had a good relation with each other.
yesterday, my brother said he can not struggle with her through all his life, but i think he’s just angry becoz of something she might have said. i kept saying him try a bit more, she’s young, immature etc etc but his point is she does not respect him. This is so bad, i wish things turn back again 
advice plz, shd i or shd i not ask my cousin, or because as per my brother’s reaction, things will pretty soon be in front of the elders, i think it will be much more complicated then, i personally, want to give it a try on our level…
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