Hello Ladies..please pay attention...PD has a question for you girls

[diwana]

Re: Hello Ladies..please pay attention…PD has a question for you girls

@phoenixdesi

diwana bhai, nafraton ka karobar mat karien.

You are portraying me as if I am an anti-Islamic fascist trying to humiliate our religion…that is so wrong.

How conveniently you ignored this part of my post

"is it mentioned in quran somewhere that a man can marry 4 women? if so, we cannot change it but we need to make sure we do justice among our wives. PERIOD"

so what did i say? i said if it is mentioned in quran then we have to respect it PERIOD

and then i said that

***“but if it is not in quran, dont you think that we need to change this Islamic ruling through ijtihad ijmah/qiyas? I feel it is not fair to woman that a man can have more than one wife at the same time. When this ruling came, there were far more women than men because so many men died in wars. That is not true anymore”

***yes if something is not in quran it is subjected to be discussed per ijmah/qiyas and ijtihad by scholars

and there is no uncivil statement in your post? you called me troll, then attacked me for opening a thread outside PA, called female posters of this thread “so-called wanna-be liberalized women”, and “how much more freedom these women want”…i think these are not exactly civlized comments…no one else used such language in this thread.

Start with explaining the red parts I quoted from your posts. Put them one by one and answer please.

No promise but… then we may have some discussion to begin with.

Please do not flip flop. It is very evident from your posts what you intended. Not the first time.

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Far apart from this, I can ‘only’ imagine how painful was it for you to say…“jazak allah Apa”.