Hello Ladies..please pay attention...PD has a question for you girls

[phoenixdesi]

Re: Hello Ladies..please pay attention…PD has a question for you girls

@diwana

All thorughout you disagreed with what is said and allowed in Islam.

You got few answers and agreed with them since that is what you wanted to hear.

What I said is that you are asking wrong crowd. You are making judgment based on few answers to satisfy what you repeated said you want including disagreement to what is allowed in Quran.

There is no uncivil statement in my post above.

Ask those who are still married with one or more wives of a man living happily and then come back with their answers please with a proof of what you disagree with and why.

Until then your question and judgment has no value.

diwana bhai, nafraton ka karobar mat karien.

You are portraying me as if I am an anti-Islamic fascist trying to humiliate our religion…that is so wrong.

How conveniently you ignored this part of my post

"is it mentioned in quran somewhere that a man can marry 4 women? if so, we cannot change it but we need to make sure we do justice among our wives. PERIOD"

so what did i say? i said if it is mentioned in quran then we have to respect it PERIOD

and then i said that

***“but if it is not in quran, dont you think that we need to change this Islamic ruling through ijtihad ijmah/qiyas? I feel it is not fair to woman that a man can have more than one wife at the same time. When this ruling came, there were far more women than men because so many men died in wars. That is not true anymore”

***yes if something is not in quran it is subjected to be discussed per ijmah/qiyas and ijtihad by scholars

and there is no uncivil statement in your post? you called me troll, then attacked me for opening a thread outside PA, called female posters of this thread “so-called wanna-be liberalized women”, and “how much more freedom these women want”…i think these are not exactly civlized comments…no one else used such language in this thread.