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Raheem, firstly, it's el topo; only friends can call me topo and we have already ascertained that you cannot be my friend as you did not know of Sammo Hung. Secondly, you will have to travel a long way to find my parents. Thirdly, hey dude, how's it going?
Hassan, I'm sorry for your bad experience. It is good though that you are making progress and moving on. Also, Turkish girls are hot, so nice one.
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Form now on i will call u only miss el topo 
. U parents in pakistan? who u live with then?
iām ok, going to meet girl for rishta tonite. U a girl you give me any advises wat to say? wat girls like to hear?
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Shehzadi el topo would work too. They are with their maker. I live in a commune with a Cthulhu worshipping cult.
Aww, Raheem's getting all growed up. My advice is forget the whole 'what do girls like to hear' approach. Think about what your expectations of marriage and a spouse are, then find out what hers are and see if they match. But, dude, what do I know? Start a separate thread, there are many ladies here who know this stuff inside out.
Oh and, congratulations! No not the rishta thing (I will offer those only when I get an invite to the wedding) but because, in your last post you actually typed the word you once, as opposed to just u. That is progress. Embrace the ou!
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Sorry for ur parents, how long ago it was? I don't know wat is Cthulhu.
Too late for new thread we going to leave in little while to meet them. If u in this situation wat u want guy to ask u?
LOL. Its bad habit from too much phone texting.
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It's cool, **** happens. Long ago. Never mind, I was just messing with you about the commune thing.
Raheem, I don't think you need to worry. You have the ability to ask questions (even if sometimes they are really dumb ones.:P) and that shows you take an interest. So just be as you are and I'm sure you'll be able to carry a conversation long enough for you both to become comfortable with each other.
Good luck. I want a full report when it's all over!
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ur very cool, miss el topo.
Thanxs. I let u know later how it goes.
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It was ok she was nice, I used some of ur jokes.:p
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How do you recover?
Cardiac exercises.
Divert yourself in to your passion, draw, chat, have fun, move on, and keep in mind that whatever happened, happened for a reason and it is for your better.
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It was very tought because the girl i was with...just walked outa my life. I was hurt, mad and very frustrated. And add to the injury, she married her cousin which she despised. Anyhow, i have moved on. And the way i dealt with it is, read Quran, Salah and of course busy with my medical life. Recently i met up with one of my ex's friend...very nice and beautiful Turkish girl. It helps talk when i talk to her though. i guess..that is what is helping me at the moment.
Ahh ok I know this feeling exactly. The guy that promised himself to me is marrying his cousin in a few months. We were in a relationship for 3 years, his guilt to family made him agree to marriage while pretending everything was fine in our relationship. I saw a bit of weird behavior but because I trusted him so much put it down to other stresses. Hear elsewhere what he's actually doing and I couldn't believe it. I can see in his face and desperation now that he made the wrong choice but doesn't have the ball's to speak and rectify.
Our communication is still there, we don't want to end but in my heart it's over and his too realises what he's gona do. He will still see me and tell me he doesn't want to marry her. I don't want this as we discussed our future and we both see same thing but he has to. I feel guilty for the poor girl he's gonna marry after many people and not just myself can see he's only going through for family.
I'm angry for me, cos i thought it'd be me. For her sorry even cos I know he doesn't want her. And for him just give up cos he can't even now gain the backbone to rectify the situation before a girl marries a guy her parents chose but he tells me he still wants to see me. I never will cos I can't interfere but the knowledge of it all is just disgraceful.
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LMAO! Next I will read you play WoW and PVP.
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Raheem, glad it went well; keep your eyes on the ball now and don't **** it up. Also, you can't steal my jokes! I want reparations.
Nighwalkr, a defibrillator! Why didn't I think of that, damn it.
Hassan & Jucee, you guys should talk.
CM, nope. Played WoW for about a week, a couple of years ago, saw its addictive power and decided not to pursue it.
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Wat reparation? All i got to give u is shirt buttons.
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CM, nope. Played WoW for about a week, a couple of years ago, saw its addictive power and decided not to pursue it.
Wise choice indeed. Very wise indeed. 5 years later, I am still stuck in the virtual basement with no light at the end of the tunnel.
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Raheem, my shirts already have buttons, what will I do with yours? I want proper reparations, think Germany after the first World War.
CM, ha, I suppose there are worse places to be than virtual basements.
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Ahh ok I know this feeling exactly. The guy that promised himself to me is marrying his cousin in a few months. We were in a relationship for 3 years, his guilt to family made him agree to marriage while pretending everything was fine in our relationship. I saw a bit of weird behavior but because I trusted him so much put it down to other stresses. Hear elsewhere what he's actually doing and I couldn't believe it. I can see in his face and desperation now that he made the wrong choice but doesn't have the ball's to speak and rectify.
Our communication is still there, we don't want to end but in my heart it's over and his too realises what he's gona do. He will still see me and tell me he doesn't want to marry her. I don't want this as we discussed our future and we both see same thing but he has to. I feel guilty for the poor girl he's gonna marry after many people and not just myself can see he's only going through for family.
I'm angry for me, cos i thought it'd be me. For her sorry even cos I know he doesn't want her. And for him just give up cos he can't even now gain the backbone to rectify the situation before a girl marries a guy her parents chose but he tells me he still wants to see me. I never will cos I can't interfere but the knowledge of it all is just disgraceful.
Aww Jucee, that is sad... :( How old are you and your guy? I'm really sorry to hear that... :( SOOO unfair and cowardly of him. I hate that aspect of Pakistani culture... it seems to happen far too often.
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Raheem, my shirts already have buttons, what will I do with yours? I want proper reparations, think Germany after the first World War.
CM, ha, I suppose there are worse places to be than virtual basements.
u keep them as the back up. Now Germany and world war, evrytime i read ur posts i have to google. 269 billion gold marks for few jokes?
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Back up buttons? So every time I need a new button, I hit you up and you deliver me a new one? Awesome, that is probably the most pointless idea I have ever heard; I like it.
Googling, well, you should be thanking me in that case for providing you with an education, albeit it one with little practical application or indeed, any use at all.
Those 'few jokes' sir, could be hhelping you to achieve your life's goal. What's a few billion gold marks in return?
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LOL
i'm not running button delivery service for u!
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Find another person
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Without the delivery bit, backup buttons are crap. So back to the drawing board, and this time come up with something better.