if you knew that your future spouse had a health problem ie. Diabetes, would you go ahead with the marriage?
yes.
obviously~!? duh! are you saying those who are not healthy are not worth loving and caring about ? That they should not get married either?
Who the hell asks someone about their health, job, social status, cultural background etc etc before deciding to love and maybe one day marry them!?
Oops! My bad ! Of course! Those very same people who are of the supposedly higher moral standards only 'Islamic' teachings and culture can offer.
Oh and scratch the love stuff too! We can't have any of that either!
waqas, it'd be nice if you didnt assume things. All i did was ask a question.
i didnt say one should ask about someones health problems, what if the person is kind enuff to admit it themselves?
personally, i wouldnt care... but some people do make a big deal out of it
forgot to add... this is not before they fall in love.. more so after they have fallen in love and are considering marriage
I'd like to direct you to my many informative posts in HnR.
hiccup you should be ashamed of yourself.
bummer... i knew someone more intelligent would have discussed this already :)
Yes yaar, imagine if u were ill and rejected due to this.....
The purpose of marriage is for taking care of eachother, for being there for one another no matter what.
Haan.... if the guy had some disease which is not curable like AIDS i would not marry him!
GASP!!! Diabetes??? No I would recommend that the ba$tard be taken out back and shot.
Re: health issues & marriage
i will take him to a doctor.
Yes ,
BTW is there any guarantee that the one who is healthy at the moment dont have a chance of getting any health porblem
yes, and if the times comes, i'll give her ma kidney too.
yes, cuz there is an equal chance of a healthy person dying as for sick person. life is unpredictable sadzz. :-)
Ofcourse.... !! its not his decision to hav the disease.. right?!?!? besides if i love hom... any kinda sickness is just trivial or secondary ..
if i was in love with him - yes i'll definetly go for it......:)
give em slow poison…
ppl will think she died naturally 
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forgot to add... this is not before they fall in love.. more so after they have fallen in love and are considering marriage
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If its just diabetes I wouldnt even wporry about it (afterall we are in Love). But if its some other terminal illness and doctors have given up hope, I would have to think bout it. In the 2nd case, I would know that person is not going to live much longer, why add to the misery and emotional trauma by marrying her and then losing her anyway? I would have to decide whats the bigger loss, not marrying her being in love or marrying her and then losing her.
yes
even if they had a contagious deadly disease, Allah na karey, i wouldn't think twice abt it
may Allah save us all from such azmaishein though
Re: health issues & marriage
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if you knew that your future spouse had a health problem ie. Diabetes, would you go ahead with the marriage?
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Depends on the health problem and how well the control it..i.e if they are an OVERWIEGHT, in active (i.e. no exercise) poorly controlled diabetic they are at mor risk to die early...lose vision/limbs but if they are healthy and watch their diabeties..then it should not be a big deal.
I had a rishta from a guy about year b4 i met my hubby..and we weren't suited but he's still in my social circle..i hear he got married and 3 months after the shadi he was diagnosed with a autoimmune disease, has gone on disability and can't work...in that case..i'm not sure what i would do...