Re: Head Scarf at Workplace, need some guidance please!
confusing psyah with firenze… not good… 
subha uth k 6 badnaam nihar-mouh khaya karein, sahid koi farak parey (umeed thori hai lekin)
Re: Head Scarf at Workplace, need some guidance please!
No, I exactly meant what I wrote. 
(errr doesn’t make sense)
Re: Head Scarf at Workplace, need some guidance please!
You are the one who judged even in OP...
how? who did I judge? the perverts?
At least you understand, so need help to get out of utopia world, or still staying their?
lol @ utopia world...anyway, you are actually practicing what you think you are opposing. You are associating head scarf with vanity. I understand why you are doing that because I've done that too all my life, primarily because most of the girls I met with a head scarf behaved that way. But then I broke through this generalized opinion and started looking at people at an individual level. So yea, I'm way out of utopia world now...your journey still hasn't ended though.
Re: Head Scarf at Workplace, need some guidance please!
Re: Head Scarf at Workplace, need some guidance please!
how? who did I judge? the perverts?
So any male look at your or even drop a line or so.. is prevert? classic.. !
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lol @ utopia world...anyway, you are actually practicing what you think you are opposing. You are associating head scarf with vanity. I understand why you are doing that because I've done that too all my life, primarily because most of the girls I met with a head scarf behaved that way. But then I broke through this generalized opinion and started looking at people at an individual level. So yea, I'm way out of utopia world now...your journey still hasn't ended though.
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I am happy in my wine world, everything is happy and kind-a-heaven here !
Re: Head Scarf at Workplace, need some guidance please!
I am happy in my wine world, everything is happy and kind-a-heaven here !
Yep....sounds like you're way too happy.
Re: Head Scarf at Workplace, need some guidance please!
“so any make look?” I didn’t get that
glad you’re having fun up there! but don’t judge others…let them be just like you let yourself be 
they aint gonna take your heaven away neither do they think theirs is more beautiful.
Re: Head Scarf at Workplace, need some guidance please!
i dont think it was your hair that men were checking out when you had your back turned to them. but what do i know...
Re: Head Scarf at Workplace, need some guidance please!
^ interesting point … so she should start wearing a burkha too but “khula-dulla” .. :k:
Re: Head Scarf at Workplace, need some guidance please!
im just saying hair isn't something that holds appeal to the run off the mill perv. if you feel violated currently by all and sundry like you describe, it is unlikely to stop because you cover your hair.
Re: Head Scarf at Workplace, need some guidance please!
i dont think it was your hair that men were checking out when you had your back turned to them. but what do i know...
I was wearing a 'lose' very long A-line frock. They might have liked the pink lace on the borders and wanted one for themselves as well might be a plausible opinion.
Re: Head Scarf at Workplace, need some guidance please!
thats it then.
Re: Head Scarf at Workplace, need some guidance please!
hmm ..well we have to find a solution right.
forget about are you going to wear or not. .just go through the list of non-mehram, .. guess what only goat is left whom you can show you face i think, ditto ..
Re: Head Scarf at Workplace, need some guidance please!
Did you attend a cross dressers university . 
Re: Head Scarf at Workplace, need some guidance please!
No, I exactly meant what I wrote. :) (errr doesn't make sense)
... and you thought i was joking. Nope not at all, i exactly meant what i wrote :)
Re: Head Scarf at Workplace, need some guidance please!
im just saying hair isn't something that holds appeal to the run off the mill perv. if you feel violated currently by all and sundry like you describe, it is unlikely to stop because you cover your hair.
you know what, the only reason I am thinking of wearing it to work is because I believe it would. I already said that I want to wear it for social and personal reasons, religion just sprout the idea of it in our society and I was thinking of making good use of it.
I don't know about other countries, but in Pakistan men are attracted to long hair which I know through personal experience...I just want to look more professional at work and long hair don't look professional.
Re: Head Scarf at Workplace, need some guidance please!
it’s called sarcasm Mr.Wits.
Re: Head Scarf at Workplace, need some guidance please!
forget about are you going to wear or not. .just go through the list of non-mehram, .. guess what only goat is left whom you can show you face i think, ditto ..
I'm not a bigot, so relax firenze. I only do what makes sense to me no matter what religion says.
Re: Head Scarf at Workplace, need some guidance please!
It is I
I don't think this is the right place to ask such questions.
Wear what you are comfortable with, simple.
Re: Head Scarf at Workplace, need some guidance please!
hain? why would I want to make psyah door and rehnay pe majboor?