my cousin told me this happened between her and her soon to be hubby( next month marraige)
She made him something to eat and apparently it was burnt, but she said it wasnt as bad as he made it out, she said it was a burger bun and yes it was burnt alittle but anyhow he made a fuss and then got angry and threw IT IN HER FACE..and walked off…amongst mutterings under his breath…
now i did not see how burnt the bun was, bit im so angry he threw it at her how dare he…i want her to call this off but marragie ix next month and everything done…also she says hes otherwise a lovely guy…:\
im livid with her for not breaking it up and im so peed off at him, b******
he`s her cousin ( but not mine) from her mothers side....he was studying in unveristy up north and came to visit them for the week, and asked her to make him something to eat....hence...the result above......
i am now going over to hers to throw a plateful of spaghetti on him.....im so maddd right now..
hmmm dont know abt what your cousin should do, but that for sure was a very rude thing to do .
didnt her parents say anything to that fiance of hers???
if he's ok with doing this now, god knows what he can do when they are married. He wasn't angry at the burnt food. It's not normal to throw food in someone's face if they didn't make it well. People do this when they are having a bad day, and when something else goes wrong, it's the last straw and they take it out on whoever they feel they are superior to. This is very dangerous behavior and a huge warning sign of domestic abuse. YOu should tell her that forget the preparations and don't think about all work everyone has done so far- and seriously think about whether she can handle this. a few months of wedding prep is insignificant compared to a life of abuse. Initially, everyone is 'lovely'- but when problems arise- this is where some people's ugly sides come out, and they may be very ugly indeed. She must learn more about whether this was a one time thing, or a joke, or if these are his true colors, and he should take anger management class or psych evaluation/therapy if she still wants to go through with it.
He obviously has no respect for her if he feels like he can throw food in her face. She should have done it back right then and there- it would have shown him that he can't treat her like that. What are her parents saying about this?
hey nadz thts really confusing situation,, ,,,but she must warn him tht she is not gonna bear it one more time,,,and dont talk to him until he apologise for his rudeness,,, thts really much rude tthing to do,,,,and im agree with meher if he behave now like tht than after marriage he might be dare to do even worst things after marriage,,,,,and i wud say postpone the wedding if you could coz i think they need more time to understad each other,,,
my cousin told me this happened between her and her soon to be hubby( next month marraige)
She made him something to eat and apparently it was burnt, but she said it wasnt as bad as he made it out, she said it was a burger bun and yes it was burnt alittle but anyhow he made a fuss and then got angry and threw IT IN HER FACE..and walked off.....amongst mutterings under his breath....
now i did not see how burnt the bun was, bit im so angry he threw it at her how dare he...i want her to call this off but marragie ix next month and everything done...also she says hes otherwise a lovely guy....:\
im livid with her for not breaking it up and im so peed off at him, b******
tell her not to attempt making any hard foods for a while. i had read somewhere about a case of death by hard paratha flung at the face. more ghee = lazeez khana...
is it normal for brides to be cooking for their to be grooms in your family? in fact i'd been meaning to ask, where are your folks from? are you potohari?
^^^ Exactly sheyn.. I don't get women like that.. fair enough, the man's a jerk to say the least, but why the fudge would you marry a guy who already throws things in your face over pathetic excuses?! Wow, just wow.
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