he says he loves my sis

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ok..so u have a husband, who cofnessed to you his love for your 16 year old sister while weeping and you have a kid ........

acha g.

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Can you get a divorce and live with your parents? From you other threads I garnered that your husband has also cheated on you and is now perving on your underage sister. Tell your parents this, have your sister tell what he is doing. BEING A DIVORCEE IS FAR BETTER THEN BEING MARRIED TO THIS GUY. Also keep in mind your daughter. She is getting and will get a proper sense of what a relationship is between a man and a woman from her parents. Do you want her to continue getting this from you guys? How one sees their parents behave affects all of their future relationships.

If your in the West, you can get your husband to pay child support.

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If this is all real, you need to get away from this guy. You have a daughter? Can you honestly say that as she gets older she will be safe around her disgusting father? Get out of this relationship and start a life of your own, with people you respect and trust.

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new breed of trolls will give old generation a run for their money. They are so innovative. On top of it, I see dark future for current Indian SOAP directors/writers

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Divorce is inevitable IMO. Do it sooner rather than later.

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Also, how old are you guys?

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Go back home to your parents for a little while, suffer a little bit but get out.

What do you mean by make her mind?

She is only 16 years old?

Are you serious?

You have a daughter and you're not worried that she will grow up seeing you take this kind of treatment from your husband?

This man is trouble...and its best you leave him to his weird problems.

If a man confesses he likes another woman, it means he no longer cares how YOU feel. Plain and simple. He does not care how this will affect his family, his wife, his daughter, no one. He has no shame anymore.

I would leave such a person.

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Tell him that you want divorce then see what happens. waise if he agrees to cut all ties then he won't be able to marry your sis either.

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wow :hinna:

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If this is real I feel really sorry for you. Really leave him and think about ur daughter. She deserves something better… I think usually, at least in our family, man treats his sister-in-law like a sister and especially in your case your sister is so young that I would be really worried that will he ever see your daughter as a **daughter **when she grows up or will he see just a young woman… So I honestly think ur daughter deserves safer environment. And if your husband cant act like a father and husband, its your responsibility to your daughter to get a divorce. I think every mom wants protect her children and make them feel safe. It must be tough, but Im sure you have your parents who will support you and just keep thinking about ur innocent daughter, that might give u strength to make decisions,do changes in your life and get a divorce. And you also deserve a husband who is loving, caring and faithful. The fact that he told you that, shows that he doesn`t care about you or your family like Reha above said.

I would definitively leave him…

This reminds me about Iss pyaar ko kya naam doon Shyam character :smiley: Yes I watch indian soap shows once in awhile:blush:

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are you sure he didn't say all this to you in anger or something? sounds like an indian soap drama!

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gross gross

your husband is a pedophile

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This kind of thing is definetly not normal for a man and can prove to be very dangerous for you and your daughter as time moves on.

If you don't mind me asking, how old are you? How old is your daughter? Would your parents support you until you can somehow get on your feet?

You don't need to say so if you don't feel comfortable, but the reason I'm asking is whether you feel you are young enough to get a job or something and start thinking about raising the child alone ( atleast for now). If your parents can shelter you and keep you that would be perfect for you. Either case, for your happiness and the well being of your child (and sister too) you need to seriously consider leaving him.

I know the divorce word gets dropped around here alot and its much easier for us to say than for you to go through with it, but there are situations in life where you need to look at the bigger picture and make the hard decisions. Think long and hard but don't be afraid to go for the tough route.
Living alone (or with your parents) not only will you be happier and not have to put up with this rubbish, but your daughter will be much much safer.

You need to remove the bullet before you can begin the healing process.

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**Go back home to your parents for a little while, suffer a little bit but get out.

What do you mean by make her mind?
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he lives abroad and making mind means that he used to convince her to be his gf by saying i love u, I don´t love my wife etc

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UH
Please tell your parents and report him to the police

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i live in pak and he lives abroad.
my parents know but want me to be established first, especially my mom.

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I am 27, hubby 32

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last time when we fought I demanded for divorce he fell down to my feet and begged for pardon, and now when he was telling me again about my sis he was saying I DON´T want to loose you either, also says i didn´t do anything wrong just telling you what is in my heart as a friend.

jb insan gumrahi per hota ha he does n ´t see difference between right n wrong, that is why he can´t see what he is doing is right or wrong.

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because he's a pedophile thats why he can't see the difference between right and wrong. If your parents knew they would keep BOTH their daughters away from this creep.

and yes pedophiles can marry "older" women :P

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I disagree with people one one thing: that the man is a pedophile.

16 years old girls don't look any different than 18 years old girls. 16 years olds are pretty matured. Yes for western concepts he is one.
It is not as if he is in love with an 11 years old. That would be pedophily.

Also the fact that he 'loves' his sister in law, doe not mean that he will have wrong intentions with his own daughter when she grows up. I don't understand how people came up with that conclusion.
His sister in law is not his real sister.

For the smarty pants out there: No, I am not defending the guy. Just pointing out some things.

Other than that, if this story is true indeed, then yes he is a major douche.