as you know about my previous threads, everything was just smooth, yesterday he said he loves my sis and loves me too,he was weeping and saying he can´t leave me and want to marry her too,islamically, also took promise that I don´t tell anyone, what is going on with me,I m deeply hurt I told his father at once, he became hyper and phoned him up,I don´t know what did they talk. now he is calling me again and again.
what do you suggest.is he playing with me or torturing me, love is nothing i believe.
you people are right. I also want divorce but the problem is I am not stable financially, have completed my degree but struggling with my career, it will take me almost 1 to 2 years to get settled.
If my SO said he 'loved' my sis I'd also want to know if anything had already happened between them at all..
nothing happened like that but he always tried to make her mind, convinced her to be his frnd,u know this leads to what. he used to make her mind in the absence of other family members.
first u should know the reason why he said this all. have u any children
we fought thrice on this issue in past, and this is forth time he is showing interest in her, I don´t know the reason but I know he is not fair with me. I have one daughter.
I want to add that every time I used to become hyper but this time I was fed up and just put the phone. He begged for forgiveness last time and it was a huge fight, I was not expecting him to take even her name again but see how ´´baygarat´he is.
Wow, I'm sorry but I think your husband has pedo tendencies. I would never live with such man, not even for a minute....even if I had to live out on a street.
we fought thrice on this issue in past, and this is forth time he is showing interest in her, I don´t know the reason but I know he is not fair with me. I have one daughter.
I want to add that every time I used to become hyper but this time I was fed up and just put the phone. He begged for forgiveness last time and it was a huge fight, I was not expecting him to take even her name again but see how ´´baygarat´he is.
handle the matter wisely as u have a daughter too. try to convince ur sister that she, if contacted by ur hubby, must show anger and rude behavior and advise him to take care of wife and daughter instead of sister-in-law. Tell ur sister and hubby too that u have a brother sister relation and any relation other than this must be closed. then try to pressurize ur hubby from his elders like ur MIL or FIL or other relatives u may know better which have influence over him.
