He is not going to marry you!

Paheli00 · August 10, 2010, 2:56am

Re: He is not going to marry you!

To make it simple for someone who still does not understand the essence of this thead I am glad to simplify that the moral of this real life story boils down to:

1- Relationship between man and woman is based on future direction more so for a much weaker partner i.e. the woman.

2- There are men who are players. I agree

3- Playing this game can be as long as a man is encouraged/entertained/welcomed to be a player. No time limit.
The game will continue as long as the woman chooses to encourage/entertain/welcome the player b/c she’s too weak emotionally to take charge of her own life.

4- Man is at fault if commnication is boken since man is responsible in ANY culture to take charge.
If a woman wants a man to be in charge…especially a desi woman…then she should not date at all. She should allow her DAD to marry her to whomever he chooses (aka he, as the man, is in charge of her future). But if a woman considers herself “mature” enough to enter into a relationship on her own for the purpose of marriage, then she should be ready/willing to take equal responsibility for the outcome of that relationship.

5- Women can be players but have lot more to lose in the end than men.

6- Third party can do so much. It is better for two directly involved to be responsible enough as not to involve third party.
Third party should NOT be doing anything in a relationship! The only time a third party should get involved is if/when one of the people in the relationship is being abused or in in some other type of physical danger.

7- Most of the time woman invloves/encourages third party because man is just too evil not to communicate.
Women involve third parties b/c they’re emotional and are unable to use their brain to analyze the situation. They’re unable to take charge of their own life and decide for themselves that they will not allow a man to “play” them.

Lastly:

Players gonna play if let be.
I completely agree! If the man is allowed to be a player, then there is no reason for him to stop.

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