ps. i dont understand that why men prefers to have mistress/ or gf over a wife? not only they are chipkify to them anyways, in fact they inquire about their life more then the wife.
ps. i dont understand that why men prefers to have mistress/ or gf over a wife? not only they are chipkify to them anyways, in fact they inquire about their life more then the wife.
Because they can change them easily when they get bored.
nope ... he wasn't going to marry her ... otherwise u don't strait out dodge the question ... u may give excuses because of xyz ... but u don't avoid it ... now thats another thing that diwana shldn't have jumped into someone else's life but then again if i was him and someone had asked me for a favour like that and i didn't know the background between the two I probably would have done the same
Yes, it is wrong of you to jump to that conclusion.
There could be a gazillion reasons why he didn't respond to the question. You do not have enough information. They may have recently had a fight about that and he might be bitter. So didn't want talk about it again. He isn't ready at that time and hopes to be ready soon. The girl does the same thing all the time; asks random people to ask him and he knows it. Or simple put he thought you asking such a question was very rude.
Usually, its a good idea to steer away from that question unless the couple offers some information that shows that something like that might be coming up. Or if you are their best friend, ask your friend, not the couple.
I am sorry. You are in the wrong there and so was the girl to have asked you to ask him that.
There are few aspects here which need to be added.
1- I was not a random guy. Know both for a long time.
2- While it can be said that it was their personal life issue no matter how close I were to be to both, the relationship had been discussed among all three of us few times before. Not to the point of their 'marriage' though.
3- The woman is rightfully getting anxious.
4- Both are highly educated and professional.
5- Both are good looking. She was once divorced after a short marriage. Reason of which I never asked her but from others I know she was not at fault.
6- She pleaded my involvement and indicated she was ready to move on if despite this direct question he is not getting her intention.
7- I have not indicated to her my judgement to avoid planting my idea in her and left it to her to decide.
8- If after that long of dating, he has not proposed he will never. Unless some twist/change to the relationship happens. (can be disussed later)
9- Yes, it is sad to see a woman coming to the point of asking a third person to be involved.
in fact, do you think you could post their names, pictures, addresses and phone numbers as well... that way we can truly get involved with this story and in their lives.