Re: He has no time for me.
Yes, the honeymoon being over shouldn’t mean things become stale or boring; however you are both looking towards the future which includes an ‘US’ which should help take the edge off the disturbance this is causing you. Is it really disturbing you that much or are you a person who doesn’t like change? Some people get used to routine, and it’s hard for them to change. But life is what is is; and not everyones carry on in the same direction at the same pace. As someone who runs a business you will know that!
My suggestions to you (as someone who previously ran a business) are:
look into business support networks in your area-especially those who support young business owners etc. You maybe surprised to learn there are plenty of people in a similar situation to you that are struggling to find friends who have a similar job to them as YES it gets lonely. You may find the networks provide you with a chance to develop a social life
2) if you can finanically afford to do so learn to drive-this will help you no end
3) if you are not already a member join online business networks and see if they hold local meet ups
4) seriously look at a hobby sweetheart apart from TV and business. You need something that is away from your job, and gives you a channel away from your daily life. Look at it as a way of letting off steam. Perhaps this could be a creative hobby? Or maybe something like kickboxing? It just depends on what makes you tick.
5) Learn to prioritise yourself as well as your business and partner.
6) spend some quality time with your sister-maybe do something you both enjoy or haven’t done in a while-maybe get to know your naughty niece?! Sometimes playing with children opens up us to the fact the way we see things isn’t always as bad as we think they are. You obviously live a serious life: business, OH, not much spare time, not much social time etc. I think you would be well if you could take some timeout for you. I think the OH situ would also become more comfortable for you as you settle into the new routine of both of you working long hours. I think your OH maybe using his weekends to unwind from work-who knows right? It’s sometimes a case of trial and error.
As long as you both share priorities of life other situations can be discussed and ‘fixed’ if both parties are open to this. I really do think your situ has a foundation in the fact your routine of spending so much time together has been rocked and you are not comfortable with it whereas your OH has taken to it quite well.
When is your wedding?