Ok this is a random thread. Just had to share with you guys!
A cousin of mine is engaged to a guy from Lahore…shes from the UK and they were talking and it emerged that he doesnt know what sex is. Like at all. He doesn’t have any knowlege of how babies are made etc. He doesnt know what it is. Neither does he understand the concept of rape cos he doesnt know what it is.
My cousin is feeling a little weird about this. They are getting married next year IA and it is worrying to her that he doesnt even have the basic idea as to what it is etc…he said he was never taught it in school…nothing…
She said she doesnt even know how to explain it to him…At frst she thought he was pulling her leg but obviously not!
Oh and mods this is a real issue....i havent put this in to be distasteful in anyway. Im sorry if this offends anyone or anythng- that is not my intention
Maybe it’s a trap…and he’s trying to get her to the point where she’d explain it to him…and then he’d find out how she know or how experienced she might be?
How can he not know? Even if he didn’t learn about it in school…what about the media (TV, movies, books)…what about from his guy friends?
Did this conversation between your cousin and her fiance take place over the Internet or on the phone? When two people are not in front of one another.......it's hard to determine the intentions behind the comments made and it's hard to tell if the other person is joking or not.
If he's playing a prank (which is possible).....your cousin is really gullible.
That's what i thought his guy friends must know. She got so annoyed at him. She said that if it was a 'joke' he would have come out and said it by now. So....if hes real that he doesnt know.....then...what is is she supposed to do? tell him to google it?
Jhoom’s got trolling competition in the form of the cousin’s fiance.
Fairywings, do you really think it’s not impossible for someone to joke around in a text message conversation? Seriously how hard is it for someone to say “No, I have no idea what sex is. I never learned about it. Kasam se, I didn’t. I promise. Can you pleeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeease explain it to me?”
u r RIGHT…and add one more thing to the list which i’m sure every male experiences and its called “wet dreams” … i’m sure he had experienced it in his dream…if NOT, then he has a bigger problem. she must just forget about him then
^Hmmm.....OP said that it "emerged" in the conversation that he doesn't know about sex. How does that emerge? Did he volunteer that information about himself? "Look here babes, I knows nothing about sex."....that seems odd. Or did she joke around about sex...and he faked ignorance? Or is he trying to put on a very shareef act and took it too far to the point it seems ridiculous?
If he's messing around, she could mess back with him. Like give him a totally erroneous and scary explanation of sex.
She must teach him with a demonstration before she marries him. Sometimes, these paindoos need to be taught again and again before they learn anything.
u r RIGHT…and add one more thing to the list which i’m sure every male experiences and its called “wet dreams” … i’m sure he had experienced it in his dream…if NOT, then he has a bigger problem. she must just forget about him then