Re: he doesn't care
groovychick
we did discuss future expectations
when he proposed to me some years ago he told me that his family might have issues but they will eventually be okay
he told me i might have to wait for a few years b/c he wants to get settled abroad and then wants to step into marriage as he feels he is not yet established [thats the reason he cited]
i said ok sure
from that my conclusion was that he also wants to get married ASAP but he cant coz he wants to be established first... but as time passed he didnt get any more established... so that reason kind of became void... and the whole family angle seeped into the situation... and it dawned on me that the reason for the delay is his family not his career
now, when i tell him its been years he said i agreed to wait. but im like, i agreed to wait so you could get established but if thats not happenning, then whats stopping us from getting married? that was never discussed in the beginning? b/c if his family didnt have issues and i was just waiting for him to be established then we could at least be in nikah or something i mean it would be a different scenario totally