Re: he doesn't care
Sabs
i am so happy for your sister :)
you know yaar, i feel like, even if i leave him, i will never be able to forget him, so it will always cast a shadow in my future marriage
you know my parents recently showed me a pic of a very cute guy who was very well off and all coz they wanted me to marry him. but i was like NO WAY ON EARTH dont even TALK to me about it. the guy was cute. richer than my current bf. no huge family either. my bf has a huge family with him he plans to live after our shadi.
but i just couldnt think of it yaar. i mean for me thats just Haraam
Sleepless nights, depression, no eating, crying and constantly fighting with him
im going through this. :(
im waiting for my breaking point to come naturally yara...i know i cant force it...but if thats what happens naturally...then it will happen...lets see what Allah swt has in store...
Yes u may never forget him, but how do u knw it will cast a shadow on your future marriage, u don;t. YOu knw its easy 4 us to say all this, but the thing is we r lukin at your situation without all the emotion, and giving u a practical solution and advice. If he is teh way he is now then he'll b like this after u get married that is if u get married. U talked about how his parents have met e.t.c. e.t.c if they liked u they wud have takin things further as well, bt that hasnt happened
Plz PLz just take a step back and think abt this, no1 apart 4rm u is seriously suffering bcos of this, sleepless nights, depresiion, not eating is this signs of a happy relationship. U want to be in a relationship with a guy that makes u feel this this?? I'm sure ull find sum1 a million times better, gd luck