Re: he doesn't care
mai chotai chaotai palai palai bachau kee batau ka bura nai manata....i have bunties..chocolates...colour pencils..and Maggi Noodles for them...:)
giving one example ..and pasting it on whole is not accurate...i am talking about majority......
there are many many aspects..colours..flavours and angles of this debate ...but on the whole..people in past ..live more happily..where bth sides mostly girl...and wife ..willing to sacrifice more ..for husband..home...children ..and other things..now ..by watching ..STAR ..SONY..and HUM...and AAJ ....many of them become choosy*...."Nakhreeli"...*in arrogance of high education..Masters will not willing to accept the graduate husband...standards..choices....etc etc...
as a result..there is very serious problem..of girls..not marrying..and as age crosses the 27 or 26 etc...then in last ..even matric pass ...is like*" gift"* for them....
no doubt..on boy sides..the "list of jahaiz" and "demand" have increased..but both sides ..have changed thier mental attitudes..and as a result..both suffer more..in contrast with past..where there is no such huge amount of divorces...and seperations .as we see today....
moreover...some "greedy" people want "on job" girl...many girls...themselves..not willing to stay home..to look after thier foremost priority...thier home and children..instead ...she is prroving to the world her foolishness...of being equal with men..and doing everything..what he can do !!!!!
and now..she is unaware of the word*"compromise"..as she earns her"own"..not dependant on "any one"...."independent"...."free"...cannot accept the "order of her own husband"..cannot stay at home ..as in "modern days ..staying at home is just like slavery of husband* ....bla bla.....
so let her prove her"**independence" **atthe cost of her own husband..good happy life of home with ...children !!!!
PS:its not generalization...to anyone...circumstances vary from individual to individual...
How is "happiness" measured and defined? Who is happy in this situation? Is a lifetime filled with sacrifice to people who take you for granted a life of happiness?
Why don't you get over these nostalgic delusions and myths and deal with reality?