Re: having friends of opposite gender after being committed/married
Be happy I’m not typing in text speak!
You get two types of counselors - ones that rugsweep such issues and ones that tackle them head on. If you have good boundaries, it shouldn’t be an issue, but all it takes is one moment - a compliment, flirting that goes on to emotional affairs leading on to physical affairs and the consequent destruction of marriages and your kids stability. I repeat, if you have strong boundaries, it shouldn’t be an issue - I’ve seen a lot of households destroyed by affairs that started out as just friends.