Having a hard time understanding madhabs

Salam alaikum wa rahmatullahi wa barakaatuhu

I have never been able to understand madhabs. By default I suppose I’m Hanafi but I didnt even know madhabs existed until a few years ago. No matter how hard I try I cant get to grips with it.
I cant understand why one thing could be haram for me but not for my sister if she is in a different madhab. Or even for a husband and wife-I have read that they could be different madhabs.
If there is proof in hadith then why not follow that.
I rather like the way of Ahle hadith as they only follow the hadith if im not mistaken.

Anyone else feel the same.

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Every madhab is also only based on the hadith, sunnah and Quran.

Differences arise because things are not always very simple.

For example, how would you handle a situation where something is explicitly stated in hadith to be an impurity, but which is implied in the Quran to not be an impurity? Hanafis, Hanbali and Shafi fiqh go with the Hadith on this, whereas Maliki fiqh argues that since the Quran is paramount, you should follow the Quran and treat the Hadith as being a fabrication since a true hadith would never appear to conflict with the Quran. (I am talking about the issue of whether the saliva of a dog is impure)

Other cases come up because of disagreement over whether a given hadith is truely sahih or not.

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Following a madhab does not mean that you're not following hadith. The madhabs all follow hadith (and obviously Qur'an) as well. However, due to various reasons, you'll find discrepancies in the hadith narrated by different narrators. The madhabs have their methodologies in reconciling these differences and give rulings based on them.

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Try the link below.

What is a Madhab? Why is it necessary to follow one? - SunniPath Library - Articles

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It is a convenient and acceptable method of dividing the ummah.

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It is a blessing to accommodate different types of people who gravitate to different ideals and expectations.

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I have opened a thread on similar thoughts a while ago, will look for it. If I find it, will post link.

It's about

"Apni apni dhapli, apna apna raag"

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How does it divide the ummah? I have many friends from different madhabs, and we all get along just fine. We may differ in minor details but we don't quarrel over them.

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One does not have to follow a set "madhab" or "sect".

Just take what is good out of all and you will be fine as long as basics are covered. No need to be so rigid.

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That being said, as a person who does believe that "I" am better off following a madhab strictly - will you hold it against me? Because I will treat people who think as you do, as my brother, indicating that there is no requirement within a madhab that should condemn another ...

Neither does it ensure that people who do not follow a single madhab will not act with disassociation towards those who do follow a madhab.

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dear i want to ask if these things were present in the time of holy prophet,NO then why these things came then. because we have ample time for Facebook but have no time for holy Quran and hadith.
we see towards ready-made list for haram and halal whereas haram and halal are defined by ALLAH as HE has the right to do so. no can put demarcation that this is halal and this is haram as some do for music.
hanfi , shafai etc these are bidati sects which has marred the real teachings of islam and now we are divided into different sects each one dislike other like he is kafir.if you want to be a real muslim then you have to read the message of ALLAH, the holy Quran yourself and should read authentic ahadees( which has full accordance with holy Quran and are not fabricated or corrupted)
i quote holy quran verse from sura hajj which will clear the matter. also read the scribd document for further enlightenment

**78. **And strive hard in Allah’s Cause as you ought to strive (with sincerity and with all your efforts that His Name should be superior). He has chosen you (to convey His Message of Islamic Monotheism to mankind by inviting them to His religion, Islam), and has not laid upon you in religion any hardship, it is the religion of your father Ibrahim (Abraham) (Islamic Monotheism). It is He (Allah) Who has named you Muslims both before and in this (the Qur’an), that the Messenger (Muhammad

) may be a witness over you and you be witnesses over mankind! So perform As-Salat (Iqamat-as-Salat), give *Zakat *and hold fast to Allah * He is your Maula (Patron, Lord, etc.), what an Excellent *Maula *(Patron, Lord, etc.) and what an Excellent Helper!

Asal Deen Aur Hamara Deen( urdu)
*

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Most people follow madhab. it is up to you to accept fatwa of salf saliheen on particular issue or accept what some contemporary scholar is sayin.

how many actualy dig in for hadith/referances? they normaly trust on the research of scholar of their choice and then how can some one amongst non scholars comment on some thing when he/she dont know complete quran/hadith set on that particular issue and how previous scholars interprated that.

its a trivial issue none the less in my opinion if you are following quran o hadith.

you may read this

Urdu
Taqleed Ki Shari Haisiyat By Shaykh Mufti Taqi Usmani
English
April-2010

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if you can exercise 'choice' in choosing one madhab to follow exclusively...and it is alright..

i don't understand how it is a bad thing if a person makes a 'choice' when looking he looks to different madhabs and chooses one of the valid opinions...which satisfies his heart.....

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So this is something that's been bothering me for a while. I grew up not knowing there were so many different sects. I was taught that anyone I meet in Masjid or else where that states they are a Muslim is just that... A Muslim. I had no idea there were different definitions of what "type" of Muslim they were.

I found out when I was 16 that there are different sects and was only exposed to a couple different sects during my most recent trip to Pakistan a few months ago. Mainly because no one asks what sect anyone belongs to here, in The States. Which would explain why it was never discussed, even in Masjid/ Qur'an academy.

So my question, do I absolutely have to identify to a specific sect? Can't I just say I'm Muslim and follow the teachings of the Qur'an & The Prophet (saw)? :S

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So my question, do I absolutely have to identify to a specific sect? Can't I just say I'm Muslim and follow the teachings of the Qur'an & The Prophet (saw)? :S
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yes...you have to follow one of the madhabs.....and follow it exclusively.....as per the 'traditionalists' as i would call them....

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What you have to do is research enough to be able to make an informed decision ... Find out about what they are teaching and why they are different and what makes them different ... If you feel afterwards that you want to gravitate towards a particular group then Alhumdulillah if you would like to continue not being associated to any particular group ... Then that is a lot harder to do, but also good as you have made an informed decision ... It is harder because you will constantly be agreeing with some people sometimes and disagreeing with another until you find two opinions that both make sense from the Sunnah and then you are forced to decide ... But this can only happen if you know about Islam and the groups enough to make that decision ... If you were unaware of the various schools of fiqh then it suggests the depth of Islam that you have been subjected to ... Following Qur'an and Hadith is simply not there until you know the arguments for and against the decisions of various groups for surety ALL of them take their rulings from the same sources ... But their perceptions govern which way the decisions are made rather than everything being clear cut in Hadith ...

Some people say you have to follow a madhab ... Technically that is not true because in order to be In the fold we look to aqeedah and not fiqh ... But it is ill advised not to follow a madhab since an untrained mind who has not been schooled in the various sciences of Hadith may get caught up in a very dangerous ocean of knowledge and metaphorically drown ... Many people have shunned hadith, and belittled various people who we are supposed to revere because they picked up a Hadith book and read it without preparation and no understanding.

Actually many new sects have formed from this very intent to either unify all groups or to abandon groups ... They become groups of their own ...

Salafis started off being anti-group and have now become a group of people who disagree with groups ...

The Nadwi school is an attempt to unify Hanafis in the subcontinent ... They are now a third group other than Barelwis and Deobandis ...

So you see avoiding group formation is almost impossible ... The moment you decide to take a different path then you have yourself instigated a seed for a new group.

Look at the term Muslim ... For instance ... It means to submit ... So what better Muslim is there than one who follows and submits rather than questions and objects? It is better for us to accept the various groups in whatever good they show and limit identifying problems and issues to ourselves, people of such groups are inclusive and not exclusive ...

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One word answer to your question.

No.

I hope the rest f your post can be answered by this one word.

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Same asnwer as I gave above to your first question.

No.

Yes. To the second question.

Let me explain my view.

Allah or his prophet did not make sects or madhabs.

People after the prophet did.

No one has to follow ANY madhab or sect rigidly.

If something bothers a person in one madhab or sect then the person is NOT required to follow that recommendation. Look for another explanation in any other sect if possible.

This means that the person has the responsibility to read different ideas besides reading the original text of Quran and Hadith. A good undertaking but still worth it.

**Most Madhabs or Sects have good in it but not ALL madhabs have EVERYTHING good in it.

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What madhab did the Prophet (SAW) follow?

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then which one is the word of god and gets you to heaven? :chai:

lets make the same statement for people of different religions then!! it is a blessing to have so many beautiful faiths and people who follow different ideals and expectations.